How do you really work around that
i find it extremly difficult to open a girl whens the musics
so loud that you can barely have a conversation with your
buddys.

It's all about contact- eyes and physical. After that it's either about dance seduction or venue change.

I usually will make eye contact. Many times I will fake a bump into a girl, or pull her hair as she walks by, although it's pretty risky. A less risky physical contact is a hand on the back (you gotta know where) or along the arm, or brisking by with some hand to hand. Keep her in your peripheral view because, I do this shit all the time, so it's me just casually doing me, (fake the casual side until it becomes you) and then when I see she's looked I shoot for eye contact.

Because I am walking by I can't go back to her, I am on my way somewhere. So I will pause for a second and reach for a hand and pull her towards me to the dance floor, then squeeze her hand on the way there so she can have a chance to squeeze back.

Then I let the dance seduction begin. And that...is another post

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Yeah, loud dance clubs are not a good place to talk.

I usually just bump into the girl on purpose, if she respond well, I compliment on something then ask her to dance. On the dance floor, is heavy kino but nothing like grabing ass or tits. I just hold her tight. Then after awhile, I say I need a drink then pull to a quieter spot. BTW, make sure you smell nice if you do this. Wear some cologne. Just don't use too much cologne.

Or if you wanna "run game" go to smoking patio. There mostly cock fest but you can still open sets.

Eye contact, kino.

So i tired but bumping alot, even with the uglier girls who should of been RIDICULOUSLY flattered. but for some reason they didnt give any time of day. and i mean yeah eye contact is so important but you cant just get somewhere with eye contact without at least a alittle convo

I've become pretty good at dealing with this, and I think I might write a proper topic on it, but for now just smile, read body language, eye contact, and dance with her but rather than dry humping and grinding, try a face-to-face position and hold her close while talking into her ear.

It's great because it creates closeness and she'll know anything you say can only be heard by the two of you, which girls seem to really love.

here is the here-vp415064.html#415064 to my more formal post about what to do in loud clubs

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Don't make the bumping seem like an "accident." I go out my way to bump into them. Like if a girl is standing 2 feet away, I go bump in to her make it seem like her fault. Is gets good laugh.

Personally, I find it easy to game on louder club.