I have been acting a douchebag to this girl.. and there has to be a way to say that im sorry without being needy or trying to get her.. cuz she will obviously think that.. since we where dating,
the thing is that I like this girl and she hates me for all the stuff i've done.
she talks shit about me to all her friends.. AND this is a Half a year later.. so i assume im still on her mind.

Hi man,

a plain honest excuse is never needy. Just say you are sorry, its then up to her if she still wants to hang out.

ciao

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If you know that you were totally in the wrong, saying sorry is DHV because you show that you're openminded, brave enough to admit your mistake and not one of those meathead stubborn that always think you're right.
I think you misunderstood the sorry concept of PUAs, saying sorry doesnt mean being AFK or sounding needy. If only will be so if you do it often or say it every chance you can. It also depend on the way you say it, if you say it out of desperation trying to win the other person back by begging then ofc it sounds needy. But if you say it with confidence and simply admitting your mistake yet not asking for their forgiveness, then it's DHV

You are right i have missunderstood this part....
And i did as you guys said.. Worked wonders. thanks!

Good job man.

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