Ive been reading some material saying how girlfriends are game just like any other girl (from The Game for instance)

Others say girlfriends are locked down and should not be gamed (David DeAngelo)


I need this cleared up a little

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Well, when your gaming a girl, it's normal to wait to text her, break dates, be inconsistent and always a challenge. When your committed to someone, doing these things wont really slide. If your going to continue to do this, why even be in one in the first place?

With a girlfriend though, you should still try to keep things exciting. Dont ever let them think that they have you in the bag, go out with friends and keep your social high-life and dont always be there at the drop of a dime. None of that has to do with being loyal or even a good boyfriend. Everyone wants there own personal time by themselves or with friends and I think the best relationships honor this and dont get bent out of shape when there not together or keeping in some form of contact 24/7.

Either way, just like with gaming, dont ever get too emotionally attached. Always be willing to walk away if something doesn't please you. It's attractive as fuck, and a woman doesn't stop being woman jest because she's in a relationship. She'll always want the excitement and the passion of always being one step behind the guy always having to work to keep his interest.

Also, dont be afraid to compliment. People tend to get too gamey when they dont have to be. You dont NEED to game your girlfriend and neg her. Tell her how she looks in that cute outfit and when she comes over the next time in an even cuter outfit, say nothing. I wouldn't say girlfriends are "locked down" because they can always just walk away.