Some of you may have read the issue I'm having with my best friend Josh and his ex...well let me tell you what happened today...

On the bus Josh came on and engaged me a bit, when I mentioned that I was talking to his ex he broke out laughing it up and went up for high fives with some of his friends nearby saying "been there done that right? can I get a high five?"

I went back to my seat after this and he came back to me and showed me pictures of 2 of the girls I'm talking to, his ex and a girl named Amanda, and showed me both nude and bra & panties pictures of both girls asking me if I wanted to keep any of them before he deleted them...

I don't know how I should feel about this...

I'm jealous that this guy has ****ed so many hot women while being such a clown

I don't know what to think of his ex that I'm talking to

I just don't know what to think, if I know anything about how I feel right now it's that I want to learn to be a DJ/PUA to the best of my ability and **** just as many HB9s or 10s in my time in high school as I can.

Currently his ex (Bree) is at going to a basketball game at school in an hour. I plan to go and at LEAST get a kiss, as I won't have any other chance to see her this weekend unless she can convince her dad to give her some space.

Knowing she's been with someone else hurts every man or has atleast hurt some time in his life. It's an ego thing, the illusion of purity. Trying to let it go, is key.
Erasing the thought of purity is rather hard however, so don't feel bad for having negative emotions over a girl or whatever.
Understand that women are sexual beings aswell and they also have their needs. Just because she's been with someone else doesn't mean she'll be less of a woman. It shouldn't change the way you think about her and if you'd really care, just forget about what she's done or is doing and enjoy your time with her instead.

I know it's hard for you when a douchebag rubs it in, but don't let it get to you. Take it with a smile, 'Cool story bro' is what you'll say. Be the best man you can be and things will come to you.

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