I am popular among women, I can hold conversations, be engaging, get them to smile, laugh, and call me back. Admittedly I am a bit shy, and am terrible at reading their signals that they want me in bed with them. While I consider myself to be well rounded and interesting, and comfortable with my physique, the only thing that inhibits me is my lack of being there, in the moment, mentally. With this said, what are some strategies I can try to better my predicament, and ways to know signals when she throws some at you/ common signals used by girls? Thanks to anyone who can provide insight into these two questions.

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