I havent posted in a while because I've been trying to figure things out for myself for abit...but last night I ran into a problem during sex, and since I have little experience in that area, I hope I might be able to find some answers here...

So last night I had sex for the 2nd time in my life, and for the first time with this girl I've been seeing. Anyways, the sex was pretty good (better than my first time atleast) but I couldnt finish to save my life, and I would like to know why? lol...

My thinking is that I was nervous or stressed out and just couldnt finish. Like I wasnt able to relax and really enjoy it, because I was so worried that she might not be satisfied enough. I was also wearing a condom (I didnt my first time) so maybe thats why I couldnt feel it as well? Though after we finished having sex I asked her to finish me off, so she started giving me head, but I still couldnt finish so I told her to stop.

The first time I had sex I was really hammered and couldnt finish because I truly couldnt feel anything because I was so drunk lol. Or maybe I was nervous then too?

Anyways, is there anyone else who has dealt with these sortve issues? Or might have some tips on how to relax? I really dont want her to think it was her fault and feel bad about it, because I really like this girl. Maybe I just cared too much? I really dont know. Any input you guys could give me would be greatly appreciated.

This happened again last night. I was a little more relaxed and used a different, more sensitive condom. I still couldnt come lol. Any feedback at all would be really appreciated.

Hi Fogell

Dont be over concerned about cuming during sex. Often masterbating gets the job done better.

Ive had this a few times, but mainly because of "Chemical Nutrition" that I shall not name for legal reasons.

If you're nervous and dont think youre going to cum, perfect!!! That means you can go for longer and shes going to be fully satisfied. I work on the expression, "Ladies First." If theyve not cum, I dont want to.

A quick note on condoms, Ive never cum from one. If you find them too tight, look for the extra large ones. I find them much more comfortable. People might think youre showing off or something if you get them with your mates around, but if thats what you need, then thats what you need.

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