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PostPosted: Mon Nov 29, 2010 12:13 pm 
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Hi All,
So we went to a community outing. This girl who has a husband started chatting me up. I couldn't read her intent but managed to hold the conversation. I didn't find the conversation too much interesting but it seems that she was interested in talking with me. I've opened up everyone in the group initially so it built me an 'identity' from the beginning.

Based on your experience, what do you think could be the intent of that girl? Is it merely to have a 'kill-time' conversation or whether she is actually attracted and subconsciously wanted to build rapport?

Advises will be really appreciated. I know I can over-analyze a situation but I really do need your inputs on the possibilities.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 29, 2010 12:47 pm 
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I couldn't read her intent but managed to hold the conversation.

So how do you know that she was chatting you up?

From what you wrote it seems, you made a good first impression (by the initial opening) and she wanted to find out more about you. Whether you succeeded in her mind, is hard to tell since you didn't provide many details.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 29, 2010 7:35 pm 
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Hi All,
So we went to a community outing. This girl who has a husband started chatting me up. I couldn't read her intent but managed to hold the conversation. I didn't find the conversation too much interesting but it seems that she was interested in talking with me. I've opened up everyone in the group initially so it built me an 'identity' from the beginning.

Based on your experience, what do you think could be the intent of that girl? Is it merely to have a 'kill-time' conversation or whether she is actually attracted and subconsciously wanted to build rapport?

Advises will be really appreciated. I know I can over-analyze a situation but I really do need your inputs on the possibilities.
Hi dude!

i have said it a couple of times already and i will say it once again: it doenst matter what she thinks. There is no possible way without asking/interacting with her to find out what she really thought or what it means.

I also think it is pointless to find out. It does not matter. What does matter is: what do you want with this girl? If you want to get to know her better, then you should take the initiative. You will soon find out if she likes you or not.

remember, the world is there for you to grasp....

BTW: good job on opening everybody up in the group.

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