So I some-what recently got this girl's number online, who i sort of knew from my gym a couple years back. I recognized her online, so i figured i talk to her and ended up getting her number. Now I know it's generally not good to talk to a girl via tex for too long, but I don't really have a choice as of right now, we didn't really speak before. So the thing is, since i never really gamed her before, it's not like i have anything previous to go off of, and because of that i don't know how take it any further. Keep in mind she's an HB9, possibly 10. I have come to terms with the fact that it might not work, i understand it's a bad situation...

1. What would you guys do to get out of this situation?

2. Bit random, but what would you guys suggest for really standing out from other guys, or really making her curious, so maybe she starts the conversation, or keeps it going.

It's good, you don't have to open her so you can move straight in to building attraction.

If you want to stand out you could possibly try peacocking, get a fucking huge hat, interesting coat, or some jewelery.

Now the item that you peacock with must have a DHV story that goes with it.

For example I have a bead necklace that I wear out sometimes.

When a girl asks about it I tell her it's a long story so we'll have to go get a seat if she wants to hear it.

Then when we are seated I tell her this DHV story:

"Ok so me and my buddy were traveling around Australia." [Traveling is a DHV in itself, shows that you are outgoing, can afford to travel, have seen the world]

"We were out near Perth when we came across this little country town, and they were having a farmers market."

"Now my girlfriend at the time was really in to beads..." [Girlfriend at the time is DHV - pre-selection, comfortable with girls]

"I saw this woman who looked like a witch, she had a stall set up and was selling all kinds of hippy stuff, including beads.."

"I looked through her stall, and wanted to buy a bead kit for my girl, she said it would be 50 dollars, I talked her down to 40." [Talking her down is DHV - shows you are confident]

"Anyways, when I got home and gave her the beads she was ESTATIC, turns out I had got a really good deal. Believe me - I was rewarded that night" *wink*

This is just my story, and it's actually true, although I often have other DHV spikes that are completely made up.

Anyways, my advice is to use DHV story, possibly neg her about some little things (providing you know how to neg properly), be confident and dominant and show her that you have options.

Good luck, have fun.

Awesome, thanks man.

Best thing to do in your situation is to keep throwing DHV stories. Ask her what program shes in, and be like "omg i dont wanna even talk to you, your remind me of my ex...or something like that". I wouldn't throw alot of negs (personal opinion) just throw a couple, and make sure to push and pull (flirt,neg and close the conversation). Also make sure to take your time in replying

Best of luck
Ib

Yeah i'll throw in more of those, thanks.

Standard stuff with girls... just be a challenge. Nonchalance shows you aren't trying too hard/needy. Tease her a bit when she acts silly/goofy/dumb/bitchy/whiney. Keep compliments light like "it's tight you're into X, most girls aren't". Just be natural dude.

Thanks alot for the advice guys, even if i was doing some of this to begin with, reassurance always feels good ya know.

1st, relax yourself, don't regard her as HB9, don't offer her any prestige in your attitude. take it easy, then she'll be easy, take it difficulty, she'll be a f$cking sh@t @sshole.

2nd, build attraction, that is the foundation of relationship. for substantial maneuvor, refer to other dear guys routines, it is easy to find one you can use.

3rd, communicating with text acts one of several different ways to attract her. these ways are intrinsic the same except of their appearances. no problem to start flirting with her from text, what ever motheds you use the target is the same. don't mind the mothed.