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When you take lead I find with single girls DHV always sounds like bragging, am learning to do kino but what else can you do after opinion opener and kino in the convo if your not highering your value to get her to go do what you want. Is compliance the next step and is it workable without dhv-ing?
A DHV story should be a story that indirectly hints at attractive qualities. You don't actually say "yeah I have loads of friends and an expensive house," you say "oh I had this really wild party at my house the other day, I had like 40-50 people over and I was really fun..." etc.
A better way to DHV, rather than telling a story, is to show mastery of a subject, especially one she's interested in. If you can move the conversation towards psychology, which women love talking about, and then tell her about herself with a cold read, then maybe talk about male/female dynamics in general, and then SEX, you're good!
You want to test for compliance and always be moving up the compliance ladder. So, start small - does she allow you to talk to her, does she respond, does she move towards you if you move away, will she hold your drink for you, will she play the "trust test" kino game, will she walk with you outside for a smoke, will she dance closely with you, will she allow you to kino escalate past friendly to sexual, etc.
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