This girl keeps bringing up her BF when we talk over the phone. I haven't been on day2 with her yet due to my busy schedule but I would do it very soon. Mostly she calls me and wants to meet me as well. But this thing is really bugging me and right now what I do is just change the topic and ignore what she said.

Example of what she does.

Me:So whats up with you?
HB:was chatting with my bf

Me: You have beautiful eyes(I didn't say exactly this but a variation of this..we had talked about eyes when we first met)
HB: My BF also says that to me.

What does this mean?

Would appreciate any insight. Thanks.

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Generally it's her way of communicating to you that there isn't a sexual future between the two of you in her eyes, at least while her relationship continues.

Sometimes it means she's testing your confidence, trying to see if you get dissuaded by the competition; however, in my experience she'll only do this early on.

You're doing the right thing from the standpoint of maximizing your (slim in my opinion) chances of seducing her by ignoring her references to her BF, but a girl repeatedly bringing up her boyfriend is really, really bad sign. If she was inclined to cheat on him, she would not be bringing him up in conversation, she would be focusing on other topics.

In general it's a bad idea, in my opinion, to try and game women in committed relationships. I'm a bit of a hypocrite in this regard, but it doesn't change my belief that it's a largely fruitless endeavor. It's even more fruitless when you're new at seduction, simply because you have a lot of ground to make up in a situation like this without a lot of skill to accomplish it. Game other women, it'll be a more valuable expenditure of your time and effort.

If you refuse to accept this advice, consider it from the standpoint that creating more options for yourself (by gaming other women) will make you more attractive to the one you seem to desire.

Good luck man

Thanks mate. I appreciate your reply.

Even I had the same standpoint earlier( like not gaming girls with BF). But later I realised that most girls(who are cute and sexy) already had BFs after I met a few girls who already had boyfriends.

So if I am gaming single girls only then don't you think it massively limits the options?

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Women are not off limits unless they are engaged, married, or dating your bud. All other women are really fair game. As has been stated, you're going to be hard pressed to find an attractive woman of high quality who is 100% single.

I do, however, agree that the woman in this case seems to be pretty happy with her boyfriend, and the best way to spark interest is through her seeing you hitting it off with other woman.

Sometimes women just don't have all that much going for them other than their boyfriend, so that's what they'll talk about most. That's what was going on here: lr-girl-with-bf-vt37623.html?highlight=