i have an issue that I really need to resolve.. my game is good.. im over AA, but i have a realllll problem w. the clubs and party type scenes.. im terrified of them.. idk why, but im extremely scared of that kind of situation.. and normally i have an attitude where I grab things im afraid of by the horns but this one is just a really bad problem of mine...

My goal is not even pick up in the clubs.. I just want to gain social momentum by being more active in the social scenes everyone travels in.. but i just have a mental block when it comes to this shit... and its really a chicken and the egg type situation.. cuz i cant get comfortable if I never go, and I cant go if I'm not comfortable... smhhhh

Clubs and abrs usually have a different vibe to them. Maybe you should try getting your energy up or getting pysched before going. Listen to your favorite songs, dance a bit. Set goals before you go, overall go to have FUN! So when you get there youll be relaxed and ready to have fun rather than being nervous/etc leading to any negatives.