For some reason or another I'm starting to like this shy girl at my day program. She makes me pry into her and try to get information out.

Today we were play sharades and I told her:

STEALTH: You should join me next on stage. *SMILE*
GIRL: With you?
STEALTH: Yes, with me!
GIRL: WIth you?!
STEALTH: Yes, don't be shy it'll be okay!
GIRL: Okay! *SMILING*

Next time it's our turn and we get up and head out of the room to discuss out of our act. We discuss our act and when we are about to go inside I touch her back having her smile.

After day SPAM hours I'm walking to my van and Jason calls me over and tells me bye. I tell him bye and touch her on the arm seductively and tell her bye in a seductive voice tone and she smiles looking down.

Here's the thing - Jason is the guy she's always around and she always wants to be with. She plays card games with him and she teases him about wearing shorts in the winter time. She even told this guy that she couldn't wait til she saw him after group.

Jason is a ass kisser but the thing I don't get is why is she always wanting to be around him and when I talk to her she's more shy than ever. It's like pulling teeth with her. She just smiles - I caught her looking at me a couple of times smiling.

Here's the thing I probably not doing right:

1) Not being reassuring showing her I wont hurt her.
2) Not showing interest only showing her disinterest signals.
3) Not showing her that I'm friendly and I'm approachable.

This one staff told me that I seem crazy like psycho like burn down a house kind of crazy if a girl doesn't like me. I'm trying to work out issues but I don't think that's it.

She has blushed a couple of times, she hasn't showed me any kind of disinterest like moving back or leaning away or disgusted face when I touch her. Let me know what the hell I'm not doing right. Thanks!

I have a theory that possible she feels more comfortable with him because she put him in friends zone and she's attracted to me. What do you guys think of this?

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I think she likes you.

Girls react in strange and different ways when they like a guy- one might go quiet and shy when he's around, one might start talking really loud, usually about other guys etc.

In my opinion, she sees Jason as a friend. You shouldn't concentrate on acting too friendly or approachable with her- keep doing what you're doing, because from what you've said, she's totally digging it. Remember, part of the reason "good girls" go for "bad boys" is because they put us out of our comfort zone; they intimidate us. I think most girls subconsciously crave this- especially the "shy" ones.

I suggest you ask her to join you for a bite to eat after your day program so that it's just you and her. Don't be afraid to tease her and such. Dominate, and be funny.

Honestly, if she blushes when she's around you, you totally have her.

She likes you, just by what you first said, you seem to her like (the cool guy) or (the cute guy) who is accepting her. Her blushing is another sure sign, she pikes you. That other guy seems like a friend, she teases him, talks to him, but if they havnt kissed or showed any real affection, there probably just friends, go for her bro.

Thanks guys for the tips! I was a bit confused! So, based on what you were telling me since she's shy she will get really quite because she's intimated by me? It could be she's afraid of showing her true feelings with me.

I ran a NLP Break Up Pattern that I came up with and now I'm not attracted to her anymore. I'll explain more in depth how to do the Break Up Pattern in the forum. Essentially, I don't care if she likes me or not. I ran the technique on myself I think on Wednesday night and ever since then haven't bothered even wanting to talk to her. I could talk to her if I wanted to but showing her interest won't be there.

I wish I got this sooner before I ran the pattern. I always thought since a girl always talked to a guy, teased him and wanted to sit by him or be near him that she liked him. I remember Jason saying to her that she was gorgeous and she gave a disgusted face looking at him. So, it makes sense that he's just a friend. Thanks for the help people!

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So, latest discovery that I have found out about this girl is that she's a lesbian. The weirdest part is that today she was looking at me smiling and I was fooling around with one of the guys and he was about to kiss me - I backed up and was like ewww bro then she made a disgusted face and hurried inside the building.

Now, today I was sitting by her and I was shaking my legs and she spread her legs apart then I used Sexual State Projection by thinking of rubbing her leg, which made her cross and uncross her legs then she got up and left the group room and never came back.

So, I'm guessing is she's pretty much of a lesbian then. Now I know when I use SSP that if a girl is uncomfortable - either she likes girls or she's not interested. I found out she's a lesbian by Jason because she told him over the phone, plus he told me that her house mate got done showering and was putting on her lingerie and the girl was checking her out. So, yeah....

Oh well, back to the drawing board!

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5 bucks says she just said that to get him off her back...
And another 5 says he told you this just to get you off hers.


No, but in all seriousness, I think this girl is bisexual, or just confused. I still think she digs you.


-Roz

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Now Roz that does make perfect sense! Why would she get pissy when this fat albert guy would try to kiss me. lol! She did seem uncomfortable with the whole Sexual State Projection - maybe too arousing for her.

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