Just wrote a load of text then timed out and losing it all... So I'm gonna try and make it shorter.

HB9 works behind bar (who I like alot) I reguarly goto with my mate, told my mate she liked me without me talking to her much, invites me out with her 2 mates, one of her mates flirts with me all night, HB9 then texts me saying "She knows I like you she's just trying to rub it in my face", then later on in the night me and HB9 were walking ahead and she overhears one of her mates say "Why is she with him, she's got a boyfriend" so she gets mad at them etc, so after that came out we didn't talk much all night but we were still cool with each other.

Next week I goto the bar and she tells my mates in a sarcastic way that she loves me (whilst I was at the toilet), all night their was alot of eye contact, then she comes up and says something to my mate and walks passed me and tells me to shut up (even though I wasn't speaking, in a sarcastic way ofc), then at the end of the night everyone was saying bye and I was walking off with my mate and she says "Bye Matt" (in a sarcastic way as to say why are you ignoring me) and I just said bye and left, after that I felt really bad ignoring her and thought I messed up big time and there was no way back AT ALL.

WELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL I guess there is still hope

As a few days later I went to the bar again with my mates thinking 100% she wouldn't speak to me ever again after ignoring her, but she didn't and we ended up talking alot and flirting quite a bit, and now she has invited me and my mate on a nightout with her and 2 of her other workmates behind the bar TOMMOROW, and I feel this is my last chance to do something...

Any advice on what to do as I really don't want to mess it up, I know she has a boyfriend but she said it was unstable etc but I still wanna get with her no matter what, please any advice on what to do would be cool.

Thanks

If you're frequently sarcastic and cocky/funny that's perfect. I've got a cocky/funny thing that will work for you.

During the night out pretend there's some girl looking at you. "Is that girl looking at me? I swear she keeps staring at us." make sure you're in a close area when you do this so that you have to speak into her ear, not in open chat.

Then later on go to the bathroom and when you're back go to your HB9 and put one arm around her waist (while standing to her side to be less intimidating) and say "I think we have a stalker, just play along." Then up the kino a little.

If this doesn't lead up to a kiss, you're either an idiot, have bad breath, or are making her up.

Last resort, but this will only work if you're pure cocky funny, at the end of the night say to her "kiss good bye" and point to your cheek. As she goes to kiss your cheek turn quickly so that she kisses you on the lips. Then act shocked and upset that she took advantage of you!!! But because you're only joking it's ok. Then say "If you wanted to kiss me properly, youcould have just asked."

Works for me.

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This truly sucks!!!