A frequent topic here is guys asking advice what to do once a girl stops showing interest. Should I freeze her out, re-engage etc.

I was thinking about a concept I heard a while back, Early frame announcement EFA, basically saying that if she early on talks a lot about money, her previous boyfriends taking her out etc, you know beforehand you will end up paying and that your wealth is important to her. By listening to these signals you avoid girls who dont fit your core interests/ values.

Another way to use it would be to enhance your alertness to her engagement level generally. We all know that setting up a day 2 or attempting a kiss if the chemistry aint there, not only gets you nowhere but often worsens your chances. Being more perceptive of early signs of disinterest and to calibrate accordingly could then improve your game. You could for example add up all her signs of commitment, how long before she answers to text, if she is high energy when you meet, responds well to touch etc, and you will get a good image of her investment level.

On the other hand, some girls respond well to persistence, two steps forward one step back. And it is your job to escalate, the hand that holds you on a distance suddenly pulls you closer instead. And for some guys, actively listening for signs she is not into you could be devastating if you have a down period.

How do you guys handle this? You back off or push through if she starts turning away? I suspect most of us have a tendency to keep going after a girl even after an outsider would say its gone cold.

Or is it a question of where you are in the hook-up process, e.g. being more aggressive can work early on, but later you need to be more alerted to her investing less?

Appreciate any input

in todays world, almost all interactions after meeting a girl, e.g in a club, will be via text.

she'll give u her number or take urs wateva, and texts will start. soo alot more game should be improved thru ur texting skills. knowing how to flirt via text, knowing how to pick up signals in txts and soo on.

neva txt twice. if u txt and get no reply. do not txt agen. even if u think u screwed it up. neva txt agen. she'll txt u bak dont worry.

if she stops txting u, doesnt show interest, doesnt call or wana meet up. then u havent had the effect u wanted, and should just try agen with the next girl.

if u dont think thats the correct way, then call her and try ur luck agen. but rememba neva run after a girl. the more good looking she is, the more expierienced she is in being chased.

simply try and seduce her, let her know u want her, let her know u like her! and if u get nowhere, try agen with the nxt girl and try something a little different.

life is short, be fast and clever and neva chase.

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