ok im a normal guy who doesnt have a problem talking to girls but they never like me first they always like some one else in my group alot more than me does any one have any tips on attracting girls to me like how to be the popular guy in the group ?

it sounds like youre the bitch of the group mate , no offence intended.

furthermore its also sounds liek you need to be more alpha , attend to youre body language issues and always make sure youre having the best time out of your group ( this will get you noticed by women and will copy the vibe your giving off ).

also you may need have some confidence issues you need to address. when they first introduce themselves do you walk up head high or do you wait for them to say high ?

and finally you can get over all of these by simply being the first to approach and then bringing them over to your group. in there eyes you will look like the leader.

lead the men and lead the women .

hope this has helped

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Seize the day

thanks for the advice mate

That's good advice.

Lead the conversations. When you're opening a set and bringing them into a group go to the women and say "My friends and I are having a discussion on_______ and we'd appreciate a female perspective on the whole thing." That gets them into the group quick enough, then hold court. It's your table, your discussion, you enjoy it. You're the Alpha male.

By you opening them and bringing them into the discussion it's a start to show your alpha side. Continue from there.

You might even consider just asking them, running a quick routine after they give you the female perspective, then leaving them and going back to the group, but keep them in your eyesight. At some point signal them over to your mates and start again. This shows you're the only one confident enough to approach them, but by being with your friends it also shows DHV and Social Proofing.

It's not foolproof, but by putting the routine into the end of your initial approach it leaves them wanting more.

See how it goes.

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Day I don't quite know, of Celibacy Challenge

This truly sucks!!!