so yeah i moved from norway to sweden(malmo) so im starting from zero...
* live with my parents :S (fuck)
*no friends (boring!!)
*no job (searching soon for job)
*no school(collage start summer 2011)

in norway i lived with my best friends in an apartament but now since i moved to sweden i live with my mom and dad.
and im abit scard beacuse i lived in small town and now i just moved to a big city and its kind scary:/

ill appreciate if someone could tell me how to start beacuse its first time im moving so i lost all my friends and abit of my confidence
should i just hit the streets and approch girls? i dont have a job yet so its hard to pay for dates and others stuff:/

i really need some guidellines
i also broke up with my girlfriend since i moved, so i miss her alot to.
im just in a fucked up sitiuation.

Go to a coffee shop or a book store if you have the confidence to approach someone then approach if not go on a website like www.plentyoffish.com and meet some girls on there. Meeting guys might be harder so Ill leave that to someone who is experienced in picking up guys to be friends with haha watch the movie I love you man to get some ideas maybe.

Are you kidding me? You're in an INCREDIBLE situation!

You have a chance to make a completely fresh start. You can choose the person you want to be, and BE that person. You don't have any old friends or lovers tying you down with their expectations of who you are, stale social circles where you do the same boring, comfortable thing over and over. You can create the life you want to live, RIGHT NOW!

As you're going around doing your job search, be approaching women all the time. You can just ask them where the best coffee around here is, or directions somewhere, or anything. Just get comfortable doing that.

How much are your parents willing to give you? If you told them you wanted to keep fit, would they help you buy a gym membership? Find a big one that has classes. Do ALL the freakin classes, make friends with everyone in all of them. Now you have yoga girls and kickboxing guys to hang out with.

Get a part-time job at a bar or restaurant. Make friends with all your co-workers. Go out with them after work for drinks, make friends with the people you hang out with at the other places. Now you have a network of guys and girls and social proof at a few venues.

Now you can invite your gym friends out on the weekend to the venues you have social proof at. Making introductions = the most alpha thing apart from killing a lion with your bare hands.

Now you can game the friends of the friends you've made, and you're creating a social circle to go out with on weekends and give you social proof, making cold approaches in clubs easier.

This is all whilst looking for a proper job and doing daygame, of course.

You're welcome.

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damn man thank you so much u opened my eyes:) i was so depresed..
what u told me is just awesome! thanks alot!

blondguy,

That's great advice mate big up!