Right so last night I went out and two specific incidents occured which I'd like to hear what you guys have to say about.

Firstly, I danced next to this girl and she smiled at me so I danced next to her abit when a friend called me over. I went back to the girl and a friend of mine shook his head indicating I shouldnt try dance in behind her. But I tend to ignore these things so I put my hands on her hips and she didnt just move away, she grabbed my hands and threw them off I look at it now and think its pretty funny but at the time I felt pretty lame. I just laughed though and turned back to my other friend behind me. How do you guys deal with those situations where you feel a bit silly after getting denied?

Secondly, this girl looked like a third wheel so asked her whats wrong is she tired coz she looked unhappy. SO she smiled and we spoke a bit of crap and I introduced myself and kissed her hand for fun. Then she looked at a guy leaning against the wall and she said thats my boyfriend. I didnt want to be the ass hitting on a guys lass so I tried to sahke his hand and he just stared at me all pissed off so I laughed and said alright then. How do you guys deal with that sort of thing? Get agro, leave, etc?

Hey man,

When a girl is grinding into you, you gotta remember that she's doing an IOM move. This means that she's doing that for a moment. If you after her again without any fair experience with her before chat-wise. She'll just ignore you. So just a hint -- don't dance again with a girl that comes grinding up to you, without you even having talked with her.

Second case -- Boyfriend.. always hard call. Especially in a situation like this. I like how you handled it by go saying "Hi" to the guy. Do watch out with it, some guys do have a temper and it can become a real mess if you do that. My advise, stay out of those awkward situations as much as possible.

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