Hey there, how are you guys doing?
what a great community this is. I was reading "the game" by Neil Strauss and I ended up here =)
I am a 23 year old above average looking guy from Jordan. For those of you who don't know Jordan its a country in the middle east located between Iraq and Israel. Being in an Arab country things don't work as in the states or Europe for instance sex before marriage is out of the question 98% of the time so most you can hope for is a kiss =)
The reason I have started reading "The Game" is because I am what you call a nice guy and frankly I am getting sick of it and I really want to change that.
Here is a situation I want your input on since I dont know what I did wrong and want to learn from my mistakes.
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A while back a girl which I havent talked to for 5 years from my school contacted me on facebook asking how I was and saying that I was one of the most handsome people she have known and we ended up msg-ing back and forth till i said we need a faster way of communication and she sent me her number.
The following day she texts me good morning and I suggest we go out for a drink; however she replies saying lets go for a coffee to see how it goes sober first.
we end up having a great time , she even suggests we hang out again so I agree but dont contact her the following two days on the third day she contacts me again suggesting we go for a walk which we do.
Now here where I suspect I began screwing things up because I started msging her almost daily afterwards and her replies were getting smaller and smaller and she refused to go out twice making excuses.
So I stopped contacting her till after about a month she contacts me again saying that she owes me from our first date and we should go out for her to repay her debt, we end up going to a restaurant for lunch and have an amazing time. she keeps texting me for the following two days and calls me on the third. When I call her again in 2 days she doesnt pick up or call back :S
After a week of no contact I text her again and suggest we go out to the movies, she refuses at first saying she had plans but text me the following day and says her plans were canceled and she was free that night.
So once again we go out and we have a long walk afterwards BUT when I call her after a few days she doesnt pick or call back :S
Now as you can imagine I start to get frustrated so I text her after a few days asking her how come she goes out with me but starts ignoring me afterwards, she dodges the question playfully saying that it was her issues and that she has an extreme case of schizophrenia.
I text her again in a few days but she doesnt reply (which is the first time that she doesnt reply to a text) and that was 2 weeks ago. Therfore I decided enough is enough and I dont want to be the nice guy anymore, hence my presence here
If anyone can shed a light on what has happened I would be really grateful since I dont want to make the same mistakes twice other than that I hope you all welcome me to this great community and I hope one day Ill be able to be as elite as some of the people here
CHAT
