okay just to start off, i'm just a regular guy, I guess i'd be viewed at as 'popular' by most people i know, and i'm definitely not a bad looking guy. I've had a lot of girls have crushes on me and talk to me, I was even about to date my school's prom queen (but I decided to back off because i wasn't feeling much of a physical connection). I bet if I told a girl i've never had a girlfriend in my life, she'd be in shock. The thing is I havn't, and I've never really been desperate for one. I've just been living my life going with the flow, i'm only 18.

There have only been two times in my life where I've REALLY wanted to date a girl (first time, i can't even explain what went wrong it was so confusing), and second time I told the girl I liked her and she was too shy to say anything so I got over her, until she told me 5 months later she really liked me too, by then i was not into her at all... but now, i'm sort of starting to get that feeling again for another girl..

I'm REALLY bad at escalation, i'm great at having conversations with girls about anything, but I'm not confident enough to do physical escalation. I've only made out with a girl once, and that was because she went in for it.. I just don't know how to make a move on a girl, I just think way too much about "oh what if this ruins that we have", "what if she doesnt want to then she tells her friends and they're going to think i'm weird", shit like that.. I just have trouble getting that physical connection, building up that escalation.. I think that's all I really need..

This girl I'm liking right now, i'm pretty sure she likes me but even if I know a girl likes me, I'm still not confident enough to get physical with her (i don't know what's wrong with me). I've only been with this girl 2 times in person (two parties) in the last month or so, but we just seem to really connect. We've been alone a lot, out of the groups and away from where everyone else is, and she always seems to call me out above anyone else.. Yesterday I was with her and we were just really talking for a long time and making each other laugh nd shit.. then we got in a car, it was me and like 4 other girls, we dropped one of em off then it was just me, the driver, and the girl i like. the driver could've easily taken me home but the girl i like said she could take me home and that I should stay at her house so she could drive me over when she would sober up a bit (this waslike 2 in the morning)..so the driver dropped both of us off at the girls house and the two of us were just in a room the whole time listening to music and stuff.. I seriously felt like making a move on her but I just couldn't, I was falling in love with herr haha, she was giving me a lot of eye contact and we were pretty close to each other, but we couldn't really do anything (or could we?) because her mom was sleeping upstairs..but I can tell i'm starting to build that feeling for her, im pretty sure she likes me, or is comfortable with me, but I really don't know what to do next?? I'm horrible when it comes to escalation, I really need help! haha .. I really feel like I need to see this girl again soon because I need to start macho'ing up and get some work done! haha


pleaseee help me and give me some advice !!! I really need some haha..

thank you for reading all of thiss =]

bump...

First of all, there's nothing wrong with you. You are a totally normal 18 y.o. who simply lacks confidence because you lack experience, same as most of us, especially at that age.

The secret to getting a k-close without making things awkward is actually pretty straightforward, you just have to make sure you practice it every day.

The reason it's difficult for you right now is because you're making it into this big THING that you have to find the right time to DO otherwise THE FREAKIN WORLD WILL END, aka "making a move."

Instead, just work on introducing kino into every interaction you ever have with EVERY women EVER. From now on, within the first few minutes of interacting with every woman, take the opportunity to touch her lightly on the shoulder for a brief second, then after while again, on the back of the elbow or side of arm, then again maybe on the small of her back. The best times to do this are the natural conversational spikes, for example when laughing at a joke of hers, emphasising a point, or directing her attention to something "over there."

This will help increase a connection between you two, and it will make her far more comfortable with you touching her later.

When you are then gaming, you simply want to move further and further towards sexual touching, for example, moving from small of back to sides, legs, knee, inner thigh, ass, etc. By the time you get to thigh, she will certainly accept a k-close.

The k-close itself: When you are generating sexual tension, you should slow down the speed of your talking, talk with a deeper voice, maintain sexual eye contact. Just wait for a pause in the conversation, then look at one eye, then her mouth, then the other eye, then the first eye again (triangular gazing) for about a second each. Then simply move in about 90% of the way in, and she will go the remaining 10%. I can honestly tell you, that if I've ever gotten as far as to attempt this k-close, it has worked 100% of the time.

Final note: NEVER EVER LOOK WHERE YOU'RE KINOing.

As for this girl, she wants you to fuck the shit out of her. Get her alone again, remember to kino escalate during your interaction, and use the triangular gazing technique to get your k-close. Tell us how it goes!

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you might be gay?

i recommend experimenting just to be sure

hahahahh thanks a lot man .. for sure i'll let you know !

and jazz, thanks for being ignorant.