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PostPosted: Mon Nov 15, 2010 8:31 pm 
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My girl finally started giving head lol, have any of you guys managed to get your girls to take the whole dick in? If so teach me!

I've been fingering my girl for a while now and after a while it seems to hurt her a lot to the point i can barely touch it without her flinching. Has anyone else had this problem?


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My girl finally started giving head lol, have any of you guys managed to get your girls to take the whole dick in? If so teach me!

I've been fingering my girl for a while now and after a while it seems to hurt her a lot to the point i can barely touch it without her flinching. Has anyone else had this problem?
i cant help with the dick thing but my last girl friend was a very tight virgin so it took us a while to " loosen " her up lol.

the best thing you can do is just to take things slowly , make sure shes properly turnt on, use lube and most importantly talk to her about the issue.

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I've been fingering my girl for a while now and after a while it seems to hurt her a lot to the point i can barely touch it without her flinching. Has anyone else had this problem?
omg if it hurts (at all) you are doing it wrong

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For deepthroat, she needs to learn how to relax her gag reflex, this just takes practice. An easier way to do it is if she lies on her back, with her head off the bed, and you stand over her and thrust slowly in her mouth, shallow at first, and just over time see how much deeper you can go.

If fingering hurts her, you're doing it wrong. You want to start with proper foreplay first, make sure to use LIGHT touching all over her body, all around, but not touching the really sensitive areas, then work your way around the breasts, then the nipples, then down the sides and the tummy, then legs, inner thighs, around the lips and only then around the clit and only indirect stimulation at first. You're better off trying to give her a clitoral orgasm first with your tongue. You can also be stimulating her clit with your tongue, and then insert one finger, knuckle down and stroke the upper wall of the pussy just past the pubic bone in a "come hither" motion. Be GENTLE at first, and you should feel that blood actually rushes to that area and it begins to swell. You can slowly apply more pressure and increase speed until you find a comfortable rhythm. You can also use two fingers once she's warmed up, unless she's super tight in which case it might be painful.

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