it seems like everything comes down to keeping ur cool under pressure and not reacting to the tension...

it seems like once u do that girls treat u like a different type of guy..

everything really seems to just fall into place when ur unaffected by it...

could we really be over complicating the whole process when all it takes its being reasonably outspoken & nonreactive to pressure?

anyone agree?

every time i see someone posting questions on here.. there in some panic OMG its over kind of state of mind.. maybe THAT in itself is what their doing wrong..?

Most people that post here usually post moments after something happens or when they're still greatly emotionally affected by it. I know personally I've made a few threads and looked at it a few days later and thought to myself, "What the fuck was I thinking?"

That usually is the biggest flaw in someone's game, when they get too emotional over things. Either from strong feelings or jealousy, or their own psychological issues. Life would really be easier if we could treat game like studying for a test and apply it without having to worry about each other's feelings.

That's some of the best advice you can give someone starting out, because if they're here, i'll put money down that they used to get very attached or very reactive over little things. Noone wants to be around anyone like that.

And I dont think that it's being able to suppress feelings, because I cant. Im the kind of guy that wears my heart on my sleeve. If I have a problem or something I need to say, I wont hesitate. You need to find that division between emotion and logic. Emotionally...I want to screw this girl into a small pile of pink mush, but logically I need to follow a certain set of rules and paths. Emotionally, I want to tell her she's the greatest thing in my life and I;d be hurting deeply without her. Logically, I know this isnt going to help so I'll take what I've learned and apply it to achieve the goals that my emotional side wants.

You can wear your heart on your sleeve and not suppress emotions and still be unreactive. You just have to have an inner game shift and realise that the stuff you think matters doesn't. You can still live authentically and express yourself, but just make sure that you're doing so for the right reasons.

For example, the AFC buys the girls flowers and on an expensive date. Why? Is he doing so because he authentically feels like he really wants to give her an amazing time and she deserves it because she's a great person? NO, he can't because he barely fucking knows her. He's doing it because he's motivated by the rapport-seeking urge to get her to like him, and is trying a pathetic, transparent trick to do so that she sees right through and finds deeply unattractive. Furthermore, she feels bad because she's getting all this free stuff when she knows she's done nothing other than be hot, and therefore she doesn't deserve it.

However, when you're actually in a relationship, and you've shared a bunch of experiences with her, and you really do like her for a number of reasons, then by all means TELL HER she's the greatest thing in your life if you honestly believe it. If a girl is actually into a guy, then him telling her how great she makes him feel is a big turn on and really romantic. They want that! You don't have to keep playing silly power games all the time, in fact if you keep doing it and never let her truly know how you feel, you risk losing her.

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