Okay so went out last night in a city about an hour from mine. In the club met this hb, exchanged numbers and ended up making out until her friend took her away and didnt see her the rest of the night. I found out she was also from the same city that I am in. Anyway I dont really get numbers that often so I wanted to do something with this. Obviously we were both drunk and she prolly wont remember much. What would be a solid text to shoot her to start up something again?

Most likely anything I say will lead to a response of "who is this?" Id like something for this situation then can take it from there.. Like I said I never really get numbers so haven't been in this situation before. Any help will be appreciated.

If you did either of 2 things wrong she will flake; Not eliciting value, Escalating too quickly.

being that her friend pulled her away.. u may have escalated too quick, OR u just failed to disarm her.. either way its a lil sketchy because the group mentality always wins.. shes not gonna do anything with you if it means risking disapproval from her friend and possibly her click..

I just wanted to save u some possible confusion by making u aware of that.

I say...

Dont Text her.. Call her, and be the cockiest funniest summabitch u know... dont worry about what to say.. just feel the vibe and be yourself... and get her friend on ur side if u get the opportunity...

I agree with above. But regardless, you should still try to text or call. I would text to start with.


My personal thing is when texting a girl I just met is to entertain myself. I dont use it as an "technique", is something I love to do because is fun. I don't have an objective like getting her to come out on a date. However, I throw in serious stuff and so she can know more about me and I get to know more about her. Warning, this is a very slow process and can take about a month to set up a date with a girl. Taken me at least like 3 months before. Also, I have gotten girls asking me to come over and fuck them couple of times straight up. Last time, it was like at 2 in the morning. This usually happens during sexual role play over text.

I don't know what type of person you are or what you convey to the girl you met. But I text about an hour after number close. Then next day with something silly like "Hey you dirty hooker, I don't know if I can talk to girls who sleeps with midgets. BTW, how big was his penis"?

for the record: im not saying she definitely will flake, just explaining why there's a chance she might.

Common man, lets be honest here.

you say you were both drunk? You cant expect anything from that.

You got her digits? Indeed, do something with it. You want to make an impression? Call her, dont text her. Texting is for scared sons of bitches. Call her. You will get the: who is this? You will give her the: the best kisser you had yesterday. then, like imnashitfool says: its uup to you to make something out of it.

From there on, you will see how well its goes, if you meet again. Its worth the effort, but i would not expect anything from it.

ciao

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Yeah not expecting anything from it.. might as well try

I recommend calling her, I find that texting just does not have the same gravitas about it. Plus with texting you are more susceptible to group mentality, you give her time in between texts to talk to her friends about what she should do and if the friends don't approve of you, and frankly they never do when it comes to having made out with a guy in a club, then you are not going to get anywhere.

Calling her allows you to have a straight up all in one conversation and you will also come off as more confident, so as long as you can pull of a conversation with this girl over the phone then you have a chance.