| So listen, back in highschool I used to run this kid. I was in this other group with a lot of people and in that group I was not the alpha male. I was pretty alpha in that group but I relied more on my other alpha friend to be part of that group. I tried to be independent and make my own decisions/choices but it resulted in me loosing connection with that group.
Now there's this other kid, I liked him a lot. He was easy to talk to , we would talk about many things and between me and him, I made the decisions. The next year after that, I teach him a little about attraction, I show him the show "Pick up Artist by VH1" and show him "Keys to the VIP". This was a mistake... the next year I don't know if he uses the techniques ...or he claims to not but he starts becoming popular with the ladies. All the girls think hes cute but not in that way. He is like a lil kid, like the girls see him cute as a baby cute. Doesn't matter, but he gets alot of attention from girls. He acts super cocky but is funny at the same time. He makes fun of me and calls me a pua and laughs, he always says im going 'hunting' and it gets on my nervs.
In todays day, we are in university. I dont run him anymore... he runs me! This friend, used to be best friend, he argues to fuckn much and i hate it. He thinks he's always right... he can be totally wrong but will argue and make 'bets'. I just gave up arguing with him because it makes me get high bloodpressure and its so stupid. Most of the time he is wrong but he is a very smart person. He doesnt party or drink and at university, he has more friends that are girls than me. I am the one sarging and getting numbers but theres nothing to do with those numbers. I text those numbers n most dont even reply... I hardly see those girls and they are forgoton. My friend he introduces us all (the group) to the new girls and it makes him seem like the alpha male.
He is the alpha male of the group and im fuckn jelous. I play it cool and all and everyone follows him. Why do they follow him? I think its because he's smart. I find myself asking him permission or asking for example " are we going to the residence building now?" and if he says yea then everyone will go... IF I ask him and he says no then no one will come.
He makes fun of everyone, if he texts somone he uses a nickname like "yo pussy face... meet me etc"
What do I do? I have started to become more independent and I do things alone now. But is it possible to take over the group? And how do I do this?
I thought ot do this is to offer good ideas, like forexample for 'having fun'...this friends idea was to go sit down and chill at the lounge after class. My idea was to go to a party or university pub. The group didnt like my idea and they sat at the pub. I sat there too...
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