I tend to figure stuff out for myself but Im actually pretty stuck on this one.

What do you guys say or do when a girl hits you with "Im not sleeping with you because I dont know if you have an STD". Its happened me a few times (during foreplay). I always figured it to be some form of LMR but Im not so sure anymore. I think some of them are genuine. Any advice would be great.

Also now that we are on the subject. Whats a good way to ask a girl if she is clean, without losing the mood or worse still, putting the idea in her head about STD's and giving her second thoughts about going on.

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i reckon these burds are askin ye cos either-

a. your coming across as a player who sleeps around

or

b. they have caught the clap before and dont want it again.

Your best bet is to lie (as always) and basicly reasure her that u nearly always wear protection and get a sexual health check up every 6 months.... go on and on about how imortant u think it is so she cant tel ur lying. and even say ur glad she brought it up. that do ya fella?

Well I already know why they ask (I just didnt bother saying in the OP).

I always ask them are they clean. (yes I am paranoid about it). But once I ask they suddenly go on the defense and ask am I clean and in some cases refuse to go any further, no matter how much I assure them.

EDIT: Its really counter-intuitive. They are happy to go along with it if you don't ask- but the minute you ask it shuts them down. If it was me (and I was being asked) it would put me at ease knowing that the other person is cautious and doesnt just sleep around. I dunno

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when you ask you are triggerin her anti-slut defence m8 (he thinks im dirty)

i would never bring it up for that reason. if in doubt wear a condom or just dont bother fucking her lol.

got to say iv only ever had chlamydia couple of times and it aint a big deal but bin told some bad shit bout some of the nastier (rarer) std's so play safe cos HIV is for life not just for xmas.

Tiocfaidh Ar La

Wear a durex and respect both yourself and her.

SHE might have something, hence why she's saying this in the first place.

If only it was that easy. It seems durex cant prevent them all. Im not sure of the exact statistics but its not 100% safe, heck it wasnt even 90%..... overall it probably is a low risk but I am EXTREMELY paranoid about this stuff.

Thanks for the input anyway

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1) I regularly get checked
2) I always use rubbers.

If that doesn't work, you may be S.O.L.