Alright guys?

Standard issue situation really. I've got back into the game after a long stretch of serial monogamy but my last ex won't get out of my head. I've put her on the pedestal (she was pretty quality to be fair) and right now if she wanted me back, I would at the drop of a hat because I still think she's sunshine and I still feel she's the one I really want to be with. This is something I need to get over. It was about a month and a half ago that we broke up and I'm having a momentary emotional relapse and it's affecting my game.

Hit me up with some knowledge, techniques, or tough love to get this gal out of my head.

Cheers.

like they usually say, get another girl!

Well i know the feeling m8 the goal here:

- Exercise alot , on everyday basis so your body produces endorfines it will make you feel alot better.

- Try a new hobbie,

- Go out go have fun and try gaming new girls.

- And stop contact with her

I love this, and would add:

- Make sure you eat regularly and as best you can, balanced meals and vitamins

- Get plenty of sleep each night

It'll pass man, somewhere along the line you're affections for her will separate from the sense of loss and damage to your ego, you'll be able to regard her positive qualities (and negative ones) more objectively. Love yourself and enjoy your life!

Good luck

This is another way to say that you don't think you could do better. She's already sucking another guy's cock but all you're doing is using her as an excuse for your poor game. The reality is that she has NOTHING to do with your piss-poor game. It's already been a month of sitting on your ass. Stop using her as a defensive mechanism as nobody cares whether you have game or not. Research, practice, and learn this game.

I heard people say sometimes you never get over somebody, you just learn to live without them!
Look at it as death of a family member, they're gone and all you can do is let nature take it's course, grieve, cry if you have to and eventually you'll learn to live without them even if you don't really get over completely. You need to go no contact with her. I'm still in contact with my ex and it's slowing me down. She will use you as an emotional crutch man.

Your break up is still fresh but you need to force yourself to focus on different things and get her out of your head. I'm in the same boat, trust me.
In the first month following breakup I was a train wreck! Second month I had this roller coaster of emotions, huge mood swings... Now I'm in my third month, occasionally I still feel down but mu mood is generally much better. Learning the pick up game makes me excited, I can imagine myself in the future being capable of picking up any girl I want and it's a good feeling! few months ago I though I would never have another girl because I was so happy with my ex. Well, guess what, my game ain't over yet, I have a lot more life to live!

good luck!

all the advice here is really good
can i add:
unless and until you get another girl to distract you its likely to take about 10 weeks to get over her
its not the ticking of the clock that mends a broken heart as much as what you do while you are waiting
it will take longer if you weaken and get back in touch
it will take less time and hurt less if you:
follow all the advice,
believe you will get over her, ie you will find someone else,
whenever you catch yourself thinking of her even for a second, have a replacement good/happy/positive thought/activity on standby, especially for use if there are certain 'weak' times when she is more likely to invade your mind and get you down

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Thanks very much for the advice guys, a lot of this stuff I'd been doing already like exercising, hobbies etc.

But yeah, I think I've been putting off my game recently and using her as an excuse. I was out tuesday, didn't think of her, got into a good frame and got 3 numbers effortlessly.

I think my emo relapse is coming to a close.