Hey everyone. Well first off I'm fairly new to the game, its been about a year since reading "The Game" and at first it really opened myself up, even if only on a social level with everyone, not really with women. But lately I've been reading about openings and routines and the such, but even without those i've been an easy person to talk to and an overall nice guy. But just the other day I got on the bus and made eye contact with a cute 8 and got some definate IOI's. we got off at the same park and ride (btw its around 10:30 or 11) so i immediately started some idle conversation (what bus you waiting for, etc) and got more ioi's. got her number and txted a bit and i can tell shes really interested in me. But today we were talking on the phone and she kinda talked about how shes going to FL in a month to visit her bf, who she has only been "dating" for a month and before that it wasn't really a relationship, just an infatuation. turns out they never really had a solid relationship in person, only just met a few times when he was here (seattle) visiting some mutual friends. We are going to the Seattle Auto Show this weekend (and yes she has already proven she is into cars) and i was looking for some tips to "destroy" her relationship with this long distance boyfriend. II personally have had a LDR that started without a stable relationship in the beginning and it turned out pretty bad and have read about the same things happening with others. So any help to get the other guy who seems to just be an infatuation out of her mind would be greatly appricated.
TaylorN.

You can't control what's in her mind, stop trying to view charisma as a tool to manipulate others, it's more like a real time testament to your positive qualities then a mind control beam in my opinion.

'Boyfriend destroying' from what I've seen operates on the premise that if you seed certain concepts in the mind of a woman you're interested in you can sabotage her relationship and steer it towards destruction. Does this sound like the sort of thing you want to do? Even if you could do this, would you want to go through with it just to increase the chances of getting your dick wet?

Look man, you said yourself you two hit it off and she seems very interested. Why not hang out with her aiming for you both to have as awesome a time as possible, and then make your interest in her clear by making a move and letting her decide whether or not she wants to get with you? You shouldn't need to 'destroy' some shitty long distance relationship, you should be able to compete with what she get's out of that situation with your eyes closed.

It's not about maneuvering her into a position where she likes you, it's about giving her the option to select you once she's earned it.

Good luck man