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PostPosted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 1:08 am 
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Ok guys so i have a little dilema. Lately i've been getting the same results for the past 10 girls. I get their numbers, they give me a tons of IOI's but when i get it it never goes anywhere.
Example, I got to university and i see a girl consistantly checking me out. I cgo up to her after class and open wher with so how have u been, we hit it off and walk towards the building that we live in. i get her number and stuff... then nothing! thats it, i see her in class all i get is a hello and when i invite out she is busy.
then another one I see her at the gym, we start talking SHE AKSKS FOR MY NUMBER i build some commonalities so i can set up a date, but when we leave thats it, she tends to be busy and never got to go out. another one we met outside of class, she gave me ioi's we hit it off too, got number, but we never got to go out, she is always busy.
In this college there isn't many places to go but to parties. and when i do get a number it never goes anywhere. PLEASE FOR THOSE WHO ARE EXPERIENCES HELP what can i do, what are some of your experiences with closing and with situations like this. throw me a bone or somethimg.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 11:22 pm 
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Simply you aren't building enough comfort...

You need to understand a few things. Having a girl's number is not your goal. Taking her number should be just a way to time bridge that is to arrange a date. Second thing is that n-closing is not difficult, and many HB's will give their number but never reply. There are some nice routines for n-close in just 30sec. But 95% of the time she will flake... So, the point is that you need to build some comfort with her before n-closing. You should even get to the point where you set up a date while talking to her, and than n-close just in case that something goes wrong. That should be in your mind always - her number is not my goal, sleeping with her is. And when you understand that just act according to that line...

To summarise, you got their number too early, and haven't built enough comfort needed for her to go out with you. IOIs should not confuse you. It's a good sign which you should use in your advantage and start creating comfort with her, arranging a meeting and then n-closing. Building comfort through text messages and phone calls is difficult. Do it in person. That should do it... ;-)


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