Hey guys! After lots of messages that didn't lead anywhere but with increasing disinterest I thought it was time to ask for advice on where I actually blow it.

The answer to this obviously does lie in this message since she loved me the night before (we met through a friends circle).
I tried to make it as authentic as possible with my translation to English.


Pulsebeat: 10.10.2010 at 20:58

bummer bummer, *friend* and me had to do without pancakes today, but they are overrated anyway... hope you came home safe yesterday kimmy


Kimmy: 10.10.2010 at 21:06

oh too bad, I'm sorry for you guys... but pancakes are a great thing! my sister has to make them for me, cause she is actually able to as opposed to me!

I almost fell asleep in the cab but I arrived well. and you? did you immediately ask *friend* for my last name or how did you find me?


Pulsebeat: 11.10.2010 at 17:14

don't worry, you didn't forget to put your last name in my mobile phone, we have provided after all. In case of emergency you would had been worth to search for
Is the college for law actually going on like normal during the fresher's week or do you have off?


*Here I wanted to set the frame that she is interested in me and that she, of course, just wanted me to find her interesting enough to search for her. I wanted it to go sexual as fast as possible*


Kimmy: 11.10.2010 at 17:16

haha totally forgot!

I have off for this week. it starts not until next week.

what's up with your plans for college now?



Pulsebeat: 14.10.2010 at 18:04

yo kimmy, next week on friday I'll may be on the *party district* and meet some friends. I want to pregame at the lake though, tag along for a short while bevore I'll meet the others. and bring a good bottle of wall mart wine


Kimmy: 15.10.2010 at 21:18

I'm positively friday at the *party district* as well!
you could report to me when you know where to go.


Pulsebeat: 17.10.2010 at 23:24

alright then just give me your number when I have to get catch you


Kimmy: 22.10.2010 at 00:31

I'm probably not until saturday at the *party district*




I don't think you need to know more background information. If so, I'll add them. Thanks for your help!

Pulsebeat

More experienced people could probably help you more as I don't have a lot of time on my hands right now, but here are two obvious mistakes you did :
This is AFC, you don't care or at least shouldn't tell her
Also AFC, you're putting her on a pedestal.

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first off, thanks for your reply lachose1!
I actually thought I'd build comfort since I look out for her. And since I thought it came from a position of high value it would not come across as chody.
Again, I saw this more of a qualification from her side that she did something that would make me want to get to know her more. Maybe I didn't make her qualify enough during the party so it would now come across as needy... hm

Pulse

I think where you went wrong was you should have said something like...
Perfect! I have to log off to do some stuff... but text me.

she would probably reply with something like... i don't know your number.
Then you would say... oh... thats why you never text me... well its ________

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