So I have this one problem when it comes to women. Not so much meeting them and getting dates, but dating multiple at a time. I can't seem to get myself to even talk to more than one woman at a time, let alone date multiple. I get caught up with wanting to get it right with that one girl, and I have no motivation to call any of the others at all.

It's not so much an emotional interference, but moreso me thinking it's wrong and just doesn't feel right. How have you guys been able to shed off that mentality? As it's basically causing me to become exclusive without being in a relationship when I really do have opportunities where I don't have to.

Yea man you definatly dont want to put all of your eggs in one basket, especially because she can turn out to be a basket case lol.

I know where you are comming from, it sorta feels like you are lying or even cheating on them, thats why you have to make it very clear that you enjoy dating and getting to know people and since you feel the way you do think of it this way, the only woman who deserves your full exclusive attention is the one you have married. Everything else is fair game, you're not the only guy they talk to, and women always have a replacement in line.

The way I helped myself getting over this is think of it like you would your close friends, even if you only have a few. Do you feel bad if you didnt make any plans with friend 1, you are currently in the process of goin to hang out with friend 2 and possibly hang out with friend 3 the next day, but friend 1 asks if you want to chill for a bit during one of those days but cant make it cause you will be busy with prior plans.

No you dont feel bad because they get it, you have plans and you will still be friends and have an awsome time when you do go to hang out.

hoped this helped a bit man.