I don't chase chicks. But as a rule, I"d like to know if that's what they want, so I can play a different game. Are there any signs to look for in the first few contacts?

I'd appreciate everyones experience and wisdom on this.

Im no expert here lol, but i ignore what she says (to an extent!) and look at what her body is saying. In txting i look at how close ended her txt msges are.

e.g. Me - i think we should go out
Case1 - hmm, i dunno about that *then she smiles, bites her lip and scans me*
Case2 - hmm, i dunno about that *raises eyebrows then faces and looks away*

I was actually thinking of starting to use future state projection like it was going out of style, then freezing out till i heard from her, if i did. I dont really know some girl told me a good way to get girls to chase you is to "promise heaven and then dont call," so im testing that out. I figure it she gives me a shout after that i follow through and actually ask her out. Its still an idea for you though.

If I am talking crap please correct me guys

You arent supposed to chase after girls... You are supposed to be a PUA.

Anyways, if you are asking about how to see if a girl is open to stuff, well you gotta calibrate.

The best way to get this right is experience, get that and you will develop a spidersense, youll feel the vibe and just go with the flow.

Almost every girl in the world is interested in something more as long as you represent an improvement to her current situation. Even if she is married or whatnot.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn