Hi guys

ive been in a relationship with a girl for 3 weeks more or less.

However we've only had ORAL sex up till now. We do sleep from time to time together (sometimes ending up in oral sex)

Is there is going something wrong? I feel like it is not normal to have such a long time before having sex..

thx

Well it depends on age, girl, culture ...

The more shy and younger girls think of sex as special and don't want to give it away fast, as they like to know if you're trustable and don't leave her alone once you dumped your seed. Shy girls are also less secure and are thus not fast ready yet.

When I was 16, my first GF wasd 15. She didn't had any boyfriends before, and I was even her first kiss. After a week and a half, she told me she would like to have sex once. After 4 or 5 weeks, we did have sex. That was the third time we were alone at a house (since that was difficult to have). I had quite fast sex with her according to the situation.

Try to escalate tough, try removing clothes of her and don't be affraid deal with LMR (do this by "de-slutting"her).

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I wouldnt stress man, it will happen eventually. My ex made me wait for 1 month just because that was her "rule".

What i used to do was, when things were getting heated (all dry humpy and sweaty). I would simply stop, sit up and watch t.v. Drove her NUTS!

I used to think of it as, if I'm not getting laid, im not going to bother with this foreplay that wont lead anywhere.

Thats just my experience though.