So I was introduced to this girl at the pub who knew a few of my male friends. I was talking to her for about 2 minutes then we parted ways. Later on in the night we ended up sitting next to each other and said a few things briefly.

Then for some reason I randomly had an impulse to touch her leg with mine under the table. I did so and she actually looked under the table (after 20 seconds or so) then said something to me but I didn't hear it (pub was too loud).

But she didn't move her leg away. Or at least not for a while, after another 2 minutes (it must have been the magic number that night - two minutes everywhere) she moved over to the next seat away from me to sit parallel to her friend and started talking to her. There was seemingly no reason for this because her friend had been there in the same seat the whole time.

She obviously became uncomfortable with the touch which is most likely an indicator of disinterest. But I handled it well, I didn't acknowledge anything or look sad. I just kept talking to a friend close by and laughing/having fun. One of her close friends took the seat she'd moved out of and I started talking to him and we were laughing together.

I looked over at her at one point trying to make "seductive" eye contact, and she kind of pouted her lips and checked me out. Kind of as if she was undecided or unsure of me. Wondering of my social status. That's the vibe I got from her at that moment.

I saw her right before she left as the pub was closing and she gave me a hug. I kept my hands on her hips after the hug while we said a few things. I asked for her name actually. Then she left. This is kind of a thread I'd like to update with the progress I make with this particular girl. There's also another 3 girls I've been introduced to recently (that I find attractive) so I might make threads about them too.

How did everyone interpret this situation? One thing I've learnt is to not let it phase you if she moves away or something and talk to EVERYONE. Laugh with all her friends and keep eye contact (but I also found it's difficult to not look creepy for me). Tips? I actually didn't do well with the eye contact thing now that I think about it. I did try to hold it a few times but I was distracted by other people talking to me and stuff. Next time I'll go for solid, sexual eye contact.

Until next time friends. - Tebu

Saw her again last week. And although I was tipsy (started drinking again) I remembered the eye contact. I walked up to her because she was talking to my friend who I was going to ask if he wanted another beer. But there was no gap in the conversation so I just kept strong eye contact while she was talking. And although I was just standing there and hadn't said a word to her... she held eye contact with me 60% of the time.

We weren't even talking. She was talking to my friend. Then when there was a gap in conversation (felt like forever until this happened) I said hey let's get another beer. Then when my friend got up and started walking I stayed there and talked with her for like 5 minutes. Made her laugh a few times. Without trying to so maybe that's an indicator of interest.

Up until this point I was doing quite well. But later in the night she sat down next to me and said some dumb/pointless/nonsensical things. So I hope she was too drunk to remember. She hugged me then left a few hours before I did.

I've really lost my knack for humour. I used to be the clown in highschool and popular because I made everyone laugh (I was kind of silly) even the toughest peers. But I was tired of being the clown and not taken seriously so I became all mild and serious. Now I forget how to be fun. So that's lame.

Anyway I'll be seeing her again tomorrow so I'll update again if anything happens.

You are microanalysing the shit out of completely meaningless interactions.

If she's willing to allow you to touch her really weirdly and basically stare at her without talking, chances are she likes you.

Stop worrying about the nuances of what she said to you for 5 minutes one time and just PLAY THE GAME. See her again, display your attractive qualities like confidence, humour, intelligence, etc. Kino escalate, isolate, comfort build, close. There's a road map - start fucking driving.

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