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PostPosted: Mon Nov 01, 2010 10:42 pm 
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Okay so, I'm in Grade 12, there's this chick I've been texting the last few days, and recently she's become a bit attached. By the way, I barely know her, we've only been talking the last few days. She asked me at the last second if I wanted to go get something to eat with her the other night but I was busy. Just extra info.

She wasn't at school today, and after school she texted me, it went like this:



Her: Wow you didn't even miss me.

Me: Oh oops, was I supposed to ;)

Her: I was hoping for a text like "I missed you" or something :(

Me: Well I was just waiting to see if you were gonna text me, haha.

Her: Wow


The texts continued, and she basicly told me she was upset because I didn't check to see if she was okay. She even said, and I quote "I coulda been dead :("

She's just sick with a bad cough.

I asked her if she thought I was a dick, and she said "I do now".

I played it off, and I also told her I did nothing wrong, to which she replied "Didn't text."

I've decided not to text her back today because of that.

Now what the hell am I supposed to do here?
She's hot as hell, so I don't just want to quit it, because frankly my school is like 98 percent ugly. But she seems to think it's a nessecity for me to text her.

Anyway I can get her to realize she's being ridiculous without pissing her off completely?


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 01, 2010 10:45 pm 
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No way in hell am I rewarding her for acting so stubborn.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 01, 2010 10:46 pm 
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Why bother letting her know shes wrong mate ...:/

Youre both still young, so shes probably a girl that wants attention...like a lot...
And she seems forward as hell, are you the only one to get attention from her like this?


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She is known to be annoying, but not even close to this clingy.

And the night that she asked me to go get some food and I said I was busy she got mad and said "You're busy? Sure."

I'm not going to act like it's alright for her to basicly try and train me.
I just want her to ease off a bit.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 01, 2010 10:54 pm 
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Shes not going to mate :p And if shes being even more annoying to you now than usual she might like you.

Freud said we tend to act more aggressively toward the people we like, because we feel less in control ie, pulling the pigtails.


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I see what you mean, but what I'm saying is if I do nothing about this, she will probably just badger me every day about not caring enough, or not texting her, putting me on guilt trips, waiting for me to apologize. Then my friend, I would be whipped.


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