Ok my girlfriend of a 1 month and a half says shes not ready for sex but wants it she is a virgin btw. Mind you I'm the farthest shes ever been with a guy sexually even though she had a 7 month relationship with a guy and only got as far as handjobs an fingering. Now heres the thing we were completely naked at the time and was saying shes not ready for it and wants it saying she wants do it eventually saying like 2 weeks or some bs. This about the 2nd time shes done this and so I just stpped and ignored here she got mad. Although when I got her tell me she said "She wants to be totally in love and have the guy in with love her" Any advice on how to get rid of this LMR because I get her extremely horny but she was still pushing me off when I said yes?

When she's giving you LMR, just be like "Oh baby I know.." and keep going. When she says it a SECOND time, then stop everything all together and switch up the whole thing 180 degrees by like turning on the t.v. and watching or anything that's just really far away from sex. Freezing her out doesn't necessarily mean to IGNORE. But rather, act as a friend for her. Don't turn into an AFC, but stop with all the romance, the kino, etc.

OR I know something that works pretty well. After she's giving you LMR, just be like, "Oh I need to go jack off in the bathroom" and start walking..Imagine what it would be like if YOU were giving her LMR and she said, "I need to go finger myself in the bathroom." And when you're done, you come out as a brand new man and she'll regret.

you could trying sexual frustrating her. you could try using a form of reverse psychology, so rather then trying just continuing until she stops you try when your undressing her and playing with her say something like:

'we really shouldnt be doing this i know that it feels so good and you're so sexy and beautiful but we really shouldn't'
what youve basically done is verbalise her mental reservation in which case it becomes less of an issue in fact it becomes more tempting its like being told dont eat the chocolate cake and the first thing you want is to eat the chocolate cake.

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i think my question is: is it you she is resisting, or sex itself. (or maybe a combination of all of these)

'sex itself/virginity' things she might be worried about that is creating this LMR :
contraception (very important and also might explain the 2week comment as it takes a bit for the pill to kick in??)
it will hurt (if its this make sure you have some lubrication)
she doesnt know what she is doing - basic inexperience (you gotta start somewhere)

'you specific' things that might create LMR:
she doesnt fancy/love you enuf
worried you dont love her and you only want sex
you will tell people and then she will be a 'slut'

you said "yes"? what...yes you love her???? do you? have you told her? does she believe you? is she not 'in love' with you? if so maybe you could concentrate your efforts on making that happen for a small while, tell her you love her but dont mention sex at all but when you have these romantic dates do everything you can to make her 'horny' ...just dont give her any end satisfaction, walk away leaving her wanting you...that way when you do have sex it will be all her idea

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