I met a girl last night that Ive gaming online for a few months we went to a fancy dress party. Online wer always flirting with each other but shes shy. Very shy. Shes probably the shyest girl I have ever met.

The night before the party, she text me pretty much saying not to be comming on to her. She didnt mean it in a dis-interested way. Just kinda like a... please dont get me alone in a room and try to start kissing me type of thing.

So I agreed.

At the partyI was really paranoid to kino her because of that. I had a load of stuff all planned out but it just went down the drain. I know theres plenty of other girls out there, but I like this girl. She really is proper LTR material. It was my first time meeting her and I was paranoid to scaring her off.

I got some "natural" kino in, when we were walking through a forest and she kept grabbing onto me. And I noticed when we got to the fire, she didnt just let go. She kept holding for a few extra seconds until I brushed her off me.

I got some other IOI's during the night, at the time I didnt really act on it. Mainly because I figured give her space and not crowd her at the first sign off an IOI.

I think at the end when we shared a taxi home that she was really expecting a kiss. At the time I wasn't sure, and it kinda seemed like a good idea. But not having built up any kino. And what if I was reading her wrong? THat would have being great way to freak her out. There was too much risk.

Anyway I was only in the door literally 5 minutes when she text me wanting to know what Im doing tonite. I probably should have said Im busy- but I was just so excited. I thought I had blown my chance with her. And here she is, wanting to meet up again.

So tonight, I plan on meeting her. But introducing a bit more kino- emmm I dunno. Id love to get some advice on this. Like I said shes a shy girl. Even last night when people would come up and talk to us, she would get very embarrassed and nervous. Im just afraid to make some sort of move and maybe cross a boundry that I cant recover from. Also I noticed shes a bit emm I dont know what the right word is, but we were having a debate on what to drink- and I said we'll play rock/paper/scissors and winner gets to pick. She refused point blank to play and wouldnt give a reason for it.

So I dunno. How do I go about this. I figure its halloween, and I did get some easy natural kino in at the fire, Im thinking maybe, scary film in the cinema. That would get me some easy kino. Then again. Its 2 hours of easy kino and after that she might want to go home. Which would be kinda crap.

What do i do... I really need your help

Quick word of advice - try to shorten the length of your posts. Most people seriously cant be bothered to flick through all of this stuff. But, luckily im patient, so ill offer my feedback:

Its point blank that she's a shy character, and there are certain ways that you deal with this kind. And so far, so good. Applying kino pressure within the early stages of the pick up process to the shy will often back fire and destroy your chances of taking things to the next level. shy women can be uncaged, but for this to take place, a bundle of COMFORT needs to be achieved before hand. im sure your experienced enough to build mutual comfort to the point where she is relaxed around you. Once you achieve this, she's your's...and the kino escalation should be smooth sailing from there. For the moment, patience is a virtue...and should pay off in the long run. Im not saying to not kino at all. Kino is a must in order to move the pick up process in the right direction. But when you do so, do it lightly...she needs to be comfortable with your touch before u exceed to the more sexual touching...