Well hey guise. I used to be pretty decent with girls when I was younger (13) but thats lost now and I need to work my way back up ;P

Well i've been reading a lot of 60years/Mystery. I'm confused about... really how tactics change. I mean half the time someone suggests a witty line/a sexual approach and others say you need a mysterious one.

But wouldn't 'Hey whats up' to a stranger suffice? And slowly build it up (not in a comedian way; i'm a dude; not a clown)?

Well currently i'm in a good situation. just out of a decent relationship wanting more; and my friend hasn't had a girlfriend in months and is keen as well. So we will be trying to get into parties and all that shit.


Since I was younger and thats all the experience i've had; its changed a lot. Do I kiss on the first date? After? I'm just confused when I go for it. I know when I can do anything else. Just confused heavily on that (old mature people now not 13yr old anymore D:)?

Another thing is; both of us go to an all boys school. Where would you meet girls? Honestly i'm thinking of just like the bus stop saying 'sup' or someshit? Not many options.

Thanks guise : >

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if you are confused on the general overview of how everything works related to pua then you need to read more. read, read, read, watch videos, and listen to audio books.

getting women is just like sales, its a linear process.

first get good at opening, then get good at conversations and midgame, then get good at # closing, then get good at texting and phone conversations, then get good at day 2s, then get good at f-closing and relationships, etc...

learn, learn, learn. but more impt than anything else is just be confident, the biggest turnoff of all to a girl is lack of self-confidence. learn how to be cocky and funny as often as possible. and always be well-groomed. also, practice, practice, practice. sometimes its best to just practice on the grenades. good luck!!!

Study as much as you can. Don't just learn openers and routines but pay equal importance or rather more importance to inner game. Go through all the sticky threads in the different sections of this forum. After you have done this you will start to realize that you are way more confident than when you hadn't even heard about game.

Now the important part. When I started with this whole thing I was told to just say hi to everyone, focus on opening first and then after I get good at opening I should focus on building attraction, sexual tension and then on number closing and so on. But I was not quite convinced with that and I believed from the beginning that I could do more than just saying hi and walking away. And so to my surprise just after a couple of approaches I started number closing because that has been my goal right from the start. So my point here is that when you go out keep a goal in your mind, it could be number close or just to have a good conversation or may be an instant date, then choose the routine that suits YOU the best and try to go all the way right from the start. If you are in then great and if you are not then who cares, you did your best.

Believe me, when guys approach, the girls are not any less nervous than the guys.

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Yeah I have been reading a LOT. thats why i'm confused.

60years says like; don't be a clown; fuck openers etc
Mystery reckons its all on the comedy, tricks and openers (I know hes a PUMA VS a normal PUA)

but it's sorta contradicting. That's confusing me a bit. Can someone shed some light? cheers

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From getting everything to nothing >.<'

The more you read materials from various PUAs the more you will be introduced to different and new schools of thought. So the best thing to do is to try everything a few times and see what works for you. Unless you try them you will have only others' opinions to rely on. After you have tried everything a number of times, use your best judgement to decide what compliments your personality the most.

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