So this is a question for all the experienced players. Do you ever get immuned to oneitis? After awhile, does your heart freeze over? I got a minor case of oneitis (2nd time in my life, not 1/10th as bad as the first), we dated for a few weeks then broke up, it's just that she was a HB9/HB10, and she played really hard to get, that was pretty damn attractive/fun for me. And I know, there are other HB9's/10's that play even harder to get than her, and are finer than her.

So... is it possible to grow immuned to oneitis?

Once you become better at pick-up you won't have to worry about oneites anymore. Reason being, once you become a good PUA the girls looks don't matter because you truely realize that there are millions of girls in the world that are the same as her. Also it isn't that PUA's "hearts freeze over," there are just so many girls out there that any one girl really doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.

The only oneites that I get is just when i see a hb10 that I have to have, I HAVE to have her! Doesn't ever stop me from pulling as many other girls as I can too though lol.

That's what I'm thinking too. She's a HB9/10 and I just have to have her. But according to the rules, I should stop all contact with her. I was dating her and this Hb7, and now it's just the HB7. I'm thinking, "damn, I want the Hb9/10 back!" I have my v-card still, I'm relatively new to pick up, I'ma get laid by the HB7 hopefully this weekend. I think that will help with my inner game issues, and get rid of this oneitis. Once done, can I start communicating with the HB9/10 again, and hopefully work my way up to dating her + sex? I just want to be able to control my emotions around this HB9/10. When I was with her, I had a loss of appetite, that's how bad I had it.

I just posted a question, that some might consider "oneitis" but I do not. To me there are different situations.

You have girls you want to sleep with and girls you want be in a relationship.

95% percent of the girls I approach are girls I want to sleep with, and only 5% are relationship material. I am not a relationship type of guy, I try to avoid the drama and other problems that usually come with relationships. I try to practice and learn from the " girls i want to sleep with" and use that on the "relationship girls".

To me just because I put a special emphasis on the "relationship girl" doesn't mean it is "oneitis"

I just know that those type of girls are hard to come by so I want to give it my best shot.

Classic case of oneitis lol

hey man, i'm new to the forums as of today, but i've been gaming for six months. Something that really helps when I start to feel that oneitis is telling myself that there are 3.5 billion more chicks out there. and not to worry about it. the more you study, the better you get, and the less you feel that shit. I know i hate it.

Well me and my lady just TALKED about having sex, and I feel better lol. I think once I do her, I'll be a new man. Then I'll go after my ex, and then other women, and more and more and more!

Way to be boss. good to hear.

There should be no difference between a girl you want to sleep with and a girl you want to be in a relationship with as far as the pick up goes!!! There is no need to lie to girls in order to pick them up (which may be one difference for you between the two). Just be yourself, use the everything about game you learned in every interaction you have with a girl, whether you want to sleep with them or not, and the relationship thing will just take care of itself after you sleep with them.

p.s. relationships are bull shit. it is just a girl you fuck on the regular

Word. However, I'm a newbie to PUA. I started off hot though, dating 2 girls at once. Now it's just 1. So I've only kissed 2 females in my life! :O To get that HB9/10, I had to lie out my ass to DHV myself lol... but it worked, but we just fought to much so were not dating. As the HB7, I lie every now n then, but not to half of the extent as the HB9/10. So yea, I'ma fake it until I make it, then I can be more honest.

lol, i have been told that. Been reading lots on the board, i basically wrote a short story on the situation if you care to read it on my post.

oneitis just sounds so stalkerishd, obsessed like to me lol

Lol don't worry bro, I know what you mean. I'm starting gto get oneitis back again on this girl, missing her and shit, good memories, FUCK! lol I'ma go play some 50 Cent, that usually helps.

EDIT: This is some good medicine, not 50, but also good.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=grTITen3ehQ

my case has some special weird circumstances lol

i tried to explain it to someone, at first i sounded like a 23 year old virgin

I looked at your thread bro, that shit is looong! Lol. Maybe if u want to shorten it down, I could provide some input. Anyways, stay in it strictly for the pussy! No booboo shit. And Fuck these hoes. [/self pep talk]