Hey guys I really need some help. I have a FR that will explain everything.

Summary: Kissed two girls at a party Sat. night, probably pissed them both off.
Got no response from either when I texted both Monday.
Saw one of them in the cafeteria today (Wed.) and it was awkward
I sent her a text saying: Well that was awkward. Hey I just wanted to apologize if I made you uncomfortable. I am not like that at all in normal life. I don't care if it is a DLV or whatever, I felt bad and honestly, I don't see it as much of a DLV. Then I got a text back, she said she agreed and that she should have at least said hello to me in the cafe, and that she doesn't usually act like that (read as: I have game lol)

So I texted her back saying that I think she seems like a really sweet girl and that I'd still like to get lunch with her. She agreed. I asked about Fri, she said she's meeting a friend, is it ok if she comes too? I said no, how about Monday? She agreed.

PLEASE give me some tips for how to approach this on Monday.

I dont think you need help in this scenario, in fact, I think you need some strong advice on morals. It is, unacceptable, in the eyes of a woman, for you to kiss her and then kiss someone else if she is around. This will, completely obliterate any chance of getting her to invest in you after the party. However, dont let this stop you from doing so. Just be the 'SMART GUY', and isolate the other girl you hope to kiss close, and do the deed. As for the apology, thats great. women work based on using emotions to communicate, and here, you are expressing to her that you are an emotional guy...and that you have feelings. For her, this is important. good move.

Now, you have her in the palm of your hands. DO NOT bring up the partying scenario on the date, or mention anything about the awkwardness of the cafeteria meet up. You want to start the date in a completely positive frame. Taking lead here is important. Women adore men who are confident, and lead - its a fact: WOMEN WANT TO BE DOMINATED, but in a calibrated manor. Im sure you've been on dates before, so remember the main thing is to enjoy yourself and to make sure that YOU are catered for as much as SHE is. Balance the investment - you buy the lunch, she buys the drinks. equality. Goodluck and all the best.

hmm good advice about kissing at parties. Too much alcohol. Definitely not making this mistake again.

About the lunch, it is in the cafeteria at my univ. so I'm not sure it counts as a 'date' date. Didn't consider buying her food, I don't know I don't really have much money at all to be honest.

Great advice about not bringing up either the party nor the awkwardness of before. I will dress really nice on Monday, be super confident (but not too much) and just get to know her.

Hopefully I will be able to make a date with her this weekend to the movies or something.

No problem. Remember, you can ''get what you want, when you want'', and this is the mindset that you should adopt everytime you are with a woman you desire. Make it radiate through the way you speak to the way you position yourself. Play your cards right, and she'll be putty in your hands before you realise it. If you 'really desire' a date with her to the movies, then use every single bit of knowledge and understanding to get the date...you are the man who can, and no one can stop you from being that person. Keep me posted on what happened, im sure it will be good news. Until we speak again, may the force be with you ; )