Hey my name is Chad, I've around the forums for a long time but this is my first post I think. I'll hopefully get around to a proper introduction soon, but for now I need a little advice on a situation I'm having.

Alright so I've been seeing this girl, we'll call her HB7 lol, for about lets say 2.5 months. About 3 weeks in (after I'd slept with her) I told her that " I dont want to get into a committed relationship in this time in my life" and she was really cool about it basically saying the same thing back to me as she had just gotta outta a bad relationship. We were on exactly the same page. Now some time has passed since then, and we have been hanging out alot, and been getting to know eachother really well, plus there hasnt really been any other women directly in my life. Shes a really cool girl with an awesome personality (I can't stand being around a chic with a shitty personallity).

Recently when asked "what three words would you use to describe yourself " (she actually asked first) one she said was faithfull. Now a couple times when we have been out on the town etc. She had indirectly called me her boyfriend, then awkwardly put into a conversation that she was single. Along with other things I can feel she is getting really attached.

Now heres the pickle. At thanksgiving the daughter of a family friend showed up, she ha just gotten back from egypt, and we hit it off a bit over drinks and a poker game. Didn't think anything of it I've know her forever and I must say I've always had a bit of a crush on her. We'll call her HB9. Shes gorgeous easily a model (does a little bit of modeling for herself, she loves photography, if that makes sense). Now I find out in the last 2 days that she likes me, thinks I'm attractive etc. (which is a bit weird because her mom has been trying to set her up with me, but thats another story). but I dont really know anyhting about her, nor does she me.

Sorry if I'm rambling a bit just wanna try n let you guys see it from the right perspective. I guess what I need the advice on is how I should persue? what do you guys think about the position on HB7? I would kinda be kicking myself for not at least taking the opportunity to get to know HB9. Just dont know where HB7 feeling are at, and it would be shitty to lose her as a "friend".

Thanks guys.