i've asked my friends this, but i'd like to hear from the experts. I'm gaming this girl, shes dating someone. So we mostly text and then she invited me to eat, we did that...before getting back home she text me she wants to hang out, so we did. had a great conversation talking about pretty much everything imaginable, then the dreaded bf convo come up....i tried avoiding it but was defenseless lol so she tells me she was out of a LTR and shes got a new chump in the picture, but she's only using him to distract herself. she cried, quickly kino'ed, i changed the convo and continued out talk. upon going our seperate ways i planned parting ways with a friendly hug, she wrapped arms around the neck and held on for a while....then landed a big one on the neck. COMEPLETELY caught me off guard. we continued talking normal after that, then one day she didnt reply all day, i didnt double text. as expected the following day she text me and i replied but was being real short with every message. i saw her today she said hello, and again, i gave a hello (with a fck off tone). Now i guess we're on a 'not-talking basis', since we both completely ignore each other all day. how would you deal with that, do you act like a d!ck? or pretend like nothing happend and play it cool.


i have other HB9 that im working on but never ran into this kind of situation, it'd be nice to know how to handle this in the future....

Just give her a quick rude comment and then wink or rub her back a little. And then go back to going your separate ways. Just say something that will get her interest. Just say she has an odd figure or, "I just noticed you have a cute crooked smile" and then wink or rub her back and that's it.

my guess is shes thinkin whats going on with this guy. why have his texts become short and boring? why in the fuck was he so rude to me when i saw him? was he really hurt that i took too long to respond to text?

sounds like you are over punishing her and she didnt do anything wrong. it seems like you are overthinking it. just take the attitude that you dont care at all what happens with the relationship. you could care less how long she takes to text you, etc...

the good news is that your strategy has put doubt into her head that you like her. use some soft negs but be assertive.

So I should break the silence and talk to her first, will that not give her the upper hand? Hmm and yea it would kinda make sense if she freaks out that I get upset for taking long...we're not in a relationship or anything so that might push her away..