I said 'hello' to first truly hot babe ive had bottle to say it to today as i passed her and she was all 'oh hi how are you?'. I walked on a lot surprised and hell if i wasnt starting to get a bit chocked up thinkin 'this stuff really works'.
what i always get stuck on is the fact that this woman was truly interested in me i think and i always freeze up no matter how much i rehearse the next line to say!
what i see a problem is that you read about how all the experts on here say what to do when starting out but can they and do they really put themselves in the shoes of guys really still shy and convey the appropriate info for people struggling to get passed those first few steps that make or break the belief that any AFC can get to that seemingly impossible task of actually getting a HB to go out with them.
do we need a mid point semi succesful guru who is in the struggle right here and now or someone only just becoming succesful to give out really relevant info on what to do. it seems a bit of a catch 22.

You do know that stopping a moving target is hard, very hard. And even then you wont just say "Hi" and then jump into a convo.

I think you just need to work on your confidence and get some practice in.

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Everything I have just said is related to the UK and some parts of Ireland. Trying it out may make you look like a bumbling twat in your own country. So be careful.

I am really shy. Been gaming since April 2009. I opened girls and right from the start, they would be into me. I would get super nervous. Instantly run out of things to say. I remember the first set I opened and this cute girl was into me. I was feeling my heart pounding.

The bad news is, there is no shortcut on how to get over this.

The good news is, you can get over it. But it does take time. You need read some inner game stuff following up with going out and approaching. Note this, is not an overnight fix. It takes going out and getting the experience.