ok so in the weekend i meet this girl and i start to game her, kino, etc she was with her friend and i had my wing man with me, it was all going good... then my wing man disappear and im left with girl and her friend, so im still gaming girl but her friend wont just fuck off.

so i decide to just get number and not go for SNL, get n-close, and say good bye to them. when i hug girl goodbye she gives me a kiss on the cheek. Now i dont understand this, does it mean she is preparing to LJBF me? kiss on the cheek is not something i deal with that often.

Also now she add me on face book just yesterday, i waited a day then accept her request. now tomorrow i want to go out, and am thinking of inviting her with us. shall i just txt her and say "come out tonight" or what should i do? i saw her online on facebook but she never say hi or i didnt to her either for fear of messing up.

please help me i have learnt a lot but this is a strange situation. if you want any more info just ask.

thanks in advance

seems like to me that you did everything right, nothing to worry about...
well, what do you expect? to start sucking your tongue in front of her friend? would it be better if she shook your hand? relax man, she is really showing some interest in you.

talk to your wing, an if he built some comfort with obstacle you could just say - my wing and I are going to(bla, bla), you should join us... but this time, tell your wing not to disappear... or you could do something more direct like I'm going (bla, bla), join me...

anyway i think you should briefly write what are you planning to do (it can be just a walk, or hanging around)

Is your facebook profile out there where everyone can see it? Or did she have to friend you to see it? If its public and she still friended you, she's either interested or trying to raise her friend count. I say send her a text but not ask her out, just something to the effect of
"whats going on? me and my buds are hitting the town tonight, by the way like your FB Prof."

See what her response is...By the way, I keep my online status on FB hidden, and just post once or twice a day, don't want em knowing when you're online, keep em guessing. IMO

well my profile is semi-private, cant see my wall and that without being friends. i did notice she has lots of friends so maybe she just want the +1.. not too sure. she knows im good with women, cause a guy i know kept comin upto me all night and askin for advice, then i told him basic game strategies and he ended up hookin up with her right infront of me and the HB and the HB was impressed.

also my wing man raises a lot of interest because he has good looks. this girl is interested in him and has been for a while. i talked to him about it yesterday pretty much if he didnt leave we would have both got laid.

ok so im thinking i'll send her a txt saying something along the lines of "come out tonight, we're going to a bbq" because i have been invited out. what time should i txt her considering this bbq is probably pretty early (like 7-8 pm)?

also thanks guys for the advice and encouragement, muchly appreciate it

I'm not a fan of facebook in relation with gaming girls... it's very difficult to actually understand some people's actions cause we all have our own bugs (for example i never add anyone as a friend, just confirm). so, i think you can't actually make a single conclusion about her feeling to you by her facebook behaviour. leave it man, and don't bother your mind with that...

that's great that you have a good wing and that the obstacle is interested in him... but i would change the text message... it shouldn't sound as an invitation to a date, it should be casual, like you just remembered that they can come with you... so my advice is to try with - we're going to a bbq, you should join us. and do it at about 2-3pm, just for precaution... maybe she will plan something for that night if you text her too late...

tthanks man appreciate it lots! if anyone else has any suggestions on txts or just in general the way to act or what to do on a day 2 with her please reply here. or if anyone has any different advice that will be muchly appreaciated too!