Ok so i could tell my SPAM didn't like me from the start but now its just escalated. I did something which i shouldn't and he shouted at me and totally blew me apart. So now i have been shunted from the social circle and he doesn't speak to me. He avoids me and won't initiate conversation with me or even reply when i speak to him. I know for a fact he talks behind my back to both the girls and lads that are there.
The way i resolve conflicts is through conversation because im persuasive but i can't now. He knows this so just completely ignores me while talking behind my back.

Now all the next door and this flat mates think im socially weak because i didn't talk back but the fact is i was in the wrong but he took it totally the wrong way simply due to the fact it was boisterous banter! I do martial arts fighting so im no chump, i just want to get on with the people im living with for the next 6 months!

How can i resolve it?

I feel ya, social power is half the game, unless we can get our hands on our influince among the people around us, the only control we have is with ourselves and our 4 bedroom walls.

Personally, I hate it, but that's what clicks me. We could learn from this.