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PostPosted: Thu Oct 21, 2010 6:05 am 
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met this girl who is older than me by around 4-5 years.. she knows my age and she's cool with it.
we hanged out about 5-6 times, not counting but we were about to have sex and she said she was on her period :/ but no sweating, i still kept on playing and got a handjob so all good. i didnt bother holding it in too long cuz it wasnt really going anywhere so i cum after like 2 minutes (a turn off??)
few days later we went for a movie (it was a boring movie but whatever), and i dropped her off home and left to my place. and for about a week now she hasnt talked/texted me.
after that last day, 3 days later i texted her that if she needs help (with moving stuff to her new place) and wants to hang out to let me know.. no respond. i called her the day after, no respond.

rewind back to day-3 i never texted/called her for a week and got a text "still remember me? " and i replied. then i got "i miss you.." and shit like that..

i feel like she is testing how needy i am. i honestly dont care if she plays with me, if anything its her loss :b but i just wanna understand the logic here, did i fark up or something?!
she is a relationship material, and im down to it (to a certain level lol) but not if she never even calls or texts..

bottom line is, what to do? should i call and leave a message that i wanna take her out somewhere fun or text her or just wait for her to text/call first?


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 21, 2010 6:28 am 
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you already called her and texted her both with no reply. maybe she is testing you or playing games but try not to overthink it and brush it off cause if you call again you will seem needy. hopefully she will call you but in the mean time go on to the next one.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 21, 2010 7:39 am 
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you already called her and texted her both with no reply. maybe she is testing you or playing games but try not to overthink it and brush it off cause if you call again you will seem needy. hopefully she will call you but in the mean time go on to the next one.
that what i thought of doing.. just keep on doing my thing and wait for her to call
i dont think that a girl (25y.o.) would play such games.. i mean, come on. that's not a boy from a party she met and just had fun with.. i bet she looks for more than that.

im just confused of what could i've done or said that would make her "play games" :?


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 10:29 pm 
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so 2 days ago she messaged me on SPAM "hey" i said "hey" back..
then after 2 minutes she didnt say anything i said "i see you got internet in the new place" she said yeah and some more shit and i answer something and thats it..
she didnt reply (well there was no question) but the thing is i felt like she didnt really want to talk she just wanted my attention or whatever..

anyways, in the last 2 weeks that the only action.
should i just forget her? do tell me to move on cuz im obviously getting numbers everywhere i go


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:43 am 
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Are the numbers you getting everywhere important to you? Because if they were, than why would she be?


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 25, 2010 5:51 am 
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hmm.. ive seen her like 6 times which is more than any of the other girls, in fact, the most i've gone out with the same girl was a one time thing..

so i guess yeah she is more important then the rest of the girl because i feel more attracted to her and more comfortable with her (knowing that she is a relationship material)

so what should i do? should i call her?


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You saw her six times, nothing happened, she got bored. You have to escalate more quickly, OR be a generally more interesting person with shit going on. I mean, you've seen her six times already and almost had sex with her, yet when she messages you on SPAM the only thing you can say is "oh so I see you've got the internet" ? Come on man. Why would she want to see you, what are you offering her? You got a pitywank out of it, move on.

As a side note, there is an interesting statistical pattern amongst women that I have experienced myself. Generally, when women are on their periods, they tend to find men with boyish features (such as myself) more attractive, and when they are ovulating, they find men with strong features (e.g. big jaw, etc.) more attractive. This obviously has a simple evolutionary explanation that I don't need to explain to you, but what it means is that my SNLs often occur with women who are on their periods.

If you still want to fuck, then you just have to really reassure her that it's ok and you don't mind. Women are very concerned about their bodies and how they look to us. They usually don't want to because they don't want the guy to be grossed out, not for any other reason. If you show that you don't care and you still find her attractive, she'll be more emotionally connected to you. I put a black towel on top of a red pillow and put that under her so nothing gets on the sheets, and you throw the condom away anyway so I really don't see what the big deal is.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 25, 2010 11:25 pm 
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i see what you mean.. i kinda killed it with that message.
but fuck, she didnt call/text for so long and all she said was hey..
if she looks for more than me, go right on.. im not upset i just wanted to know what have i done wrong.

ps. i got a handjob when she said she is on her period.. i was cool with it didnt show any signs of change in mood.. had a good time went out for dinner after.
few days later we went for a movie, it ended late at like 12:30 so i was like, ill drop you home, you got work early tomorrow, showing her that i care and dont mind if we skip the main event for that night. and that was the last time we saw each other.


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