I met a girl online, got her email after 3-4 message exchanges, then got her number after 2 emails.

Things were going great, she was texting me things like "Lol, shutup!", "u make me smile", and she tried to make the conversation sexual several times. (I didn't let it go there, I wanted to meet her, not become her phone sex guy.)

So then we meet up, and I made a few AFC mistakes there. I was busy with work and didn't get a chance to scope out the area beforehand (I'm new in town), so I didn't have a definite plan for the date, we spent some time trying to figure out what bar to go to... And then later on I did some totally AFC things like tell her I'm new in town and don't have many friends yet, and haven't dated in a long time...

So we go home, and when we were saying goodbye she definitely paused for me to kiss her. (Stupid me, I didn't take the opportunity!) Later she texted me and thanked me, saying she had a great time, etc.

But then from the next day, she was slow to answer texts. As in, she used to reply within 5 minutes, but now I can maybe expect a reply the next day, maybe not.

She went on a trip to Germany for a week, and told me she'd email me, but didn't. (She wasn't lying about the trip, it was genuine.) Now it's been a week and she should be back, but hasn't texted or emailed me back yet.

I don't want to text her immediately after she's back, obviously. So what do I do? Wait for her to get back to me? Call her after a couple days?

Well it's good you understand the mistakes you made, so make sure to LEARN from them.

The k-close should be something that you don't suddenly do at the end of the date. Then it's a awkward state break and it sucks.

Next time, scope out 3 locations for your day 2. The first two should definitely have alcohol. The first should be somewhere where you can have a conversation, sit close, and kino escalate. The second should be higher energy and give a chance to walk around, dance, and have things going on like live music or arcade games or something. THIS venue is the time to k-close because you should have been kinoing, using push pull, long enough to build up sexual tension and gotten to at least holding her by the waist pretty close by this point.

[If you're in a venue with a live band, for example, then you can ratchet up the kino easily by leading her by the hand through the crowd to a place to stand and watch. Then place her in front of you, and stand behind her, you can then put your arms on her hips or around her, and dance in time with the music, you can lean in to her ear and whisper stuff, and then your whole side of your face is touching her's. After two or three whispers like this, there is so much sexual tension that turning her around and kissing using triangular gazing will result in almost 100% success.]

The third venue should be somewhere close to your house and should be a more relaxed lounge kind of place. This is a good time to sit together on a sofa and kiss a bit more, and get a bit more sexual with the touching. Then you can go back to your place to lend her that CD or show her that youtube video, but then she has to go cuz you have to be up early

With regards to your specific situation, I would send her a random funny text about something that happened to you, ask her how the trip was, and then try and arrange another time to see her. I cannot promise that she'll accept because to be honest you completely fucked up the last time in almost every way and she likely has pegged you as a dickless choad. However, the good news is that you know what to do the next time around and there are over 3 billion women on planet Earth!

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Thanks man, much appreciated.

Yeah, I know I fucked up, I'd never actually gone out on an evening date before, so I didn't know what to expect. (e.g. I didn't know that people have drinks BEFORE dinner.) And she turned out to be much hotter than her pictures, easily 8.5-9, and taller than me, so I was slightly in shock...

But I went home and made a list of all the ways I fucked up (12 major ones). Most have simple solutions for future endeavors, some are a bit tricky.

Anyway, I'm still going to give this girl a bit more effort before I give up.. Maybe she didn't notice some of the fuckups, and I did do a few things right. Crazier shit has happened..

you need to DHV to offset whatever mistakes you've made.. Being nonreactive is one way, but thats really hit and miss cuz her reactiveness to that is proportionate to how much attention she is already getting n if shes high value thats not a good strategy..

I dont have an exact technique for this situation, but You might wanna think of a good way to show ur value so u can go back to attraction game...