I just wander this because the last time I got friend zoned I promised myself Id do whatever it takes to turn it round....and so I started learning pick up stuff (Ive been a major AFC my whole life, my lifes changed more in this last year than ever before).

I'll keep this brief just to see the respones. But of course I have my own drama that Ive been looking for answers to without the need to post but theres just so many posts the search results take ages to scan and I get no where.

So.....have any of you guys ended up with a girl you were friend zoned by (i mean a relationship not just a fling)?

Thanks guys

I have, but unexpectedly.

When your friend zoned, it's best to move on to new women, don;t waste time, it's so AFC like when your persistent, even after being friend zoned. The biggest attraction is to show her your cool and confident. I.E, having fun, dating girls, this can bring attraction from her, therefore, her wanting you.

Prime example:

I wanted a girl that I liked really bad, she didn't want me, I persisted it, she got even more distant and "friendly" .. eventually pursued other women, didn't make the same mistakes, she saw I was having fun, then word got around that she wanted me. After I finished my time with the girl I moved onto, we got it going, and she was in my hands, because she knew, I'm no fool and wont wait around like a pussy cat, I can find other women, they like the way I am.

Hope that makes some sense. So yeah it can happen, but move on, and whatever will be will be.

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Ah, thanks Chelios. That makes sense yeah.

In fact I noticed that once she started noticing potential competition, she also started to seem more interested. Also she flaked once in a text and with a reply something along the lines of 'its cool....might invite someone else out...' she text back the next day to see if the offer to her was still there.

Congratulations to you mate I'm real happy for ya. Ive hit a bit of a stale mate at the minute it seems, (ended up posting it in the end) but Im deffo gonna have fun and be my best self til things work out!

Always look forward, for a bigger, brighter future in everything, especially when it comes to women. Your the prize, not her.

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I think that there should personally be a new defenition of oneitis
It really depends on what you are looking for . Relationship then she isnt a oneitis she is a challenge that you will succeed in getting. ( but nethertheless go for more than one girl at a time so you have the "if i fxck this up i dont care ive got backups" mentality

Pua lifestyle she is a oneitis and you should never get hungover that one girl otherwise she will affect your game .

and in answer to your question . Yes we do . I do anyways