Don't view every set as a puzzle to be solved, sometimes the solution is to move on. Maybe her dog died that day, or you look exactly like an ex that cheated on her, or maybe she's just a killjoy bitch.
The bottom line is that there are a thousand reasons why someone might not be receptive, and none of them are worth investigating in any particular instance. From what I read in your post, this chick was borderline hostile; in general, just avoid negative people, they fuck with your head space and attitude, and can leave you analyzing what you did (which from what I can tell is honestly attempt to be friendly) and looking for issues with it.
Don't sweat it my man, it's one thing to be able to plow through a bit of a bitch shield with confidence, but it's another to disregard social calibration. There's plenty more chickas that want to chat and dance with a fun guy
