kind of a rant and some facts about me.

first off... i only had sex once n it was like over a month ago (1 month of dry spell)I realize now of course the pussy wont fall into you lap. so instead of procastinating like the last time i signed up on one of these kind of forums, im gonna make opportunity i have to approach worth it and play a game called hot girl tag i learned in another thread. (basically need sex my penis is mad @ me)

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this guy basically summed up everything i need to say. Im not saying i dont want to work @ all to get it, but i feel like im qualifying my self to someone. which then in turns make me feel like im kissing ass? which i DREAD!!

am i just going about this wrong?I know (because i been told by many) im a boring person SOMETIMES socially. When i game girls i used to just interview them but hey i was and still am a noobie.

I tried small talk with a 2 set today and failed horribly. They were obviously uninterested by my stupid questions about bus routes(we were on the bus) and i failed to transition into something interesting( i went in about what school they went to). They were just having a dry conversation with me. AFter the first awkward silence i tried to resurrect it but it happened again. then i tried one last time because hey we are sitting right next to eachother and i have no exit, but it was a dead mission.

One big problem i have is Dhv. BEing 100% honest with people here. i never EVER in my life had a connection, chemistry or w/e you call it with a chick before.

How can i demonstrate Dhv if ive never done anything in life cept idk video games/drugs ??

i guess im just saying how can i make her want me without all this routine /dhv /opener stuff? it makes me feel like a phony, and i already hate courting and qualifying my self to women in the first place.

any comments really wanted

guess im just saying how can i make her want me without all this routine /dhv /opener stuff? it makes me feel like a phony, and i already hate courting and qualifying my self to women in the first place.

"phony?" sorry but you got it all wrong the way to be good at PUA is to find a role model who suits to your taste and picture how you would want to be and what lines work on him.. Face it these forums are created for all types of people of course you wont feel comfortable with everything you read.. I personally think the best way to go is to buy the book "THE Game" has over 700 reviews giving it 4.5 out 5 stars on amazon itll help you break out of the afc name and also GET RID OF THAT NAME you arent a AFC you are a now a player so stop branding yourself as a AFC! okay bro? and if you live near NYC i can help you with your game..

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Based on the fact he was on the bus and he used the expression "dry" I bet he's from the UK actually.

Wherever you're from the trick to DHVing is two things. The first is to realise (which you have done) that you need to go out and actually make your life more interesting. Join a dance class, play a competitive sport, go mountain climbing or bungee jumping, travel to a few random places, get a parttime job in a bar, start learning the guitar, etc. etc. This will give you lots of shit to talk about.

The second part is learning how to take ANY story or topic that interests you and make it interesting by talking passionately, and use it to help display as many attraction switches as possible.

For example, just think of 2-3 stories that have happened to you EVER, it doesn't have to be last week. Don't tell stories about being unsure of yourself, failing, being ill, being unhealthy, being aggressive or violent, having a girl break up with you etc. DO pick stories that involve you conquering a fear, putting yourself in a new situation, succeeding in anything, having friends (esp female), past relationships, caring about family and friends, having wealth, status or power (be careful to IMPLY this rather than state it specifically).

ALWAYS be funny and confident no matter what you talk about. Be passionate, and use descriptive terms. Most girls will respond better if you describe how you were FEELING at the time, as well as just what happened. Leave pauses, and allow opportunities for them to ask questions themselves, or actually say "have you been there" "has that ever happened to you?" "do you have a friend like that?" "has a guy ever done that to you?" etc. so that you can open new conversational threads, see where they go, and always be able to fall back on your thread should that one run dry.

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