Yo troops, HB9 I have been advancing on. Kissed once, says she likes me, etc etc blah blah but after I invited her over at like 10 pm last week, she put the cock block up. These are the reasons for her apprehension:

1. She has trust issues because she has only dated people that have lied to her.

2. She is still hung up over her ex-boyfriend that she called the possible one- its been four months now… she says she will be ready to move on soon but just cant get over it. Women and their emotional bullshit.

3. Doesn’t want to like anyone, but likes me. Says she isn’t sure what to do about it…

I figured I should just move on- maybe she is straight up lying about it, or is just emotionally fucked up right now and is something I shouldn’t deal with.

However she has texted me a ton this week. She has always initiated (don’t want to seem like an AFC)- in fact one morning she texted me, I didn’t answer, and she wrote two more text messages saying wtf because I didn’t respond.

So how do I crack this? I would say fuck it but she is extremely hot and totally not a bitch- a more rare find in Denver.

dont worry about the "trust issues" and "ex-boyfriend" shit.. Thats irrelevant.

attraction is attraction, just make her wanna live in the moment, by being ur most attractive...

it sounds like shes already into you, so just be cocky/funny w. her & try to take her up the compliance latter, till your kissing her.. then from there move into the big kino stuff and then foreplay.. and then sex..

Agreed its all irelevant. Whenever she brings up ex-boyfriend or her fucked up head, or who she likes just change the subject.
Back in my hard AFC days I had this scenario and if you enable her to talk bout her ex or liking ppl it will go downhill, U may get stuck in a horrible place if you arent already in this wierd zone between friends and attraction. Its pretty much hell, she wont LBJF you but she wont date you either she'll just say she's not over him yet and I Like you but IDK what you should expect.
If the txting is excessive just stop it. It can become a txtship which also occurs in this hell.

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Killer advice guys. I think I will just backoff for a bit. I appreciate it! I'll report back with updates.

So I haven't texted her for a few days and I blew off this snowboard movie premiere that she and a bunch of our friends went to last night... she sent me a text saying "too good to come to movie premieres or what?"

Havent said anything back- should I write a neutral text or just not respond at all?

you've already sent something, but u should of just said "was busy"
then not txted her after that for the nite

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Disagree. If she sends anything negative just don't reply. I think you made a mistake initially inviting her at 10pm, that's basically a booty call. Freeze out, invite her to something fun and different, and go from there.

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I actually didnt say anything back until about 11:30... this is how the convo went

HB9: HAAYYY (after I didnt send anything back)
Me: Hi
HB9:Whats up playa?
Me: Chillin, out and about. You?
HB9: Shoooooooot chillin
Me: No response

Eh?

UPDATE:

She has been out of town, so while I havent been able to meet up with her, the same shit has been going on for a while....she texts me, I act uninterested, on and on.

Im stuck!

Ill see her Tuesday- how to k-close without going through the same "Im still not over my boyfriend BS"

Theres no elaborate plan here we can tell ya. Just when you see her be the man, start creating some sexual tension be comfortable, touch her...correctly, But txting is just fluff and it wont move her thoughts about u. in person is the only way to go.

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Jelly is right on the money. Just be a man and lead. She is in your world now, not the other way around. Have that mindset and it will come off as easier to lead.