Background Info: My girl views me as a "badboy". She said, "I'm the guy she doesn't wanna like, but she does."

Anyways..

Here's how it started. I was going to go chill with her, we talked on the phone, I said I'll be their in 30 minutes. I actually came to her house in 40, cuz of traffic. Anyways, she was fine when I said I'll be their in 30 minutes. Now when I get their, she says she just got out of the shower, and to wait up for her, blablabla... After 15 minutes of waiting, I was getting irritated and was like, "where u at, im about to leave." She's like, "2 minutes". She runs back inside, takes like another 10 minutes, I told her, "Alright I'm about to leave seriously this time." She txts something like, "I got fucking lip gloss on my uniform cuz I'm rushin." I dunno wtf that meant... is this chick really tryna put the blame on me??? I said, "I don't give a fuck. That's your fault. I seriously gotta leave in 2 min. So I'll cya then, if not, next time." She writes back, "Fine leave, I'm not gonna deal with ur bullshit." We got into a lil more of an arguement... and when I left, she was like, "so your sayin it's my fault cuz i got lipglosso n my uniform cuz I was rushin for you, it's over." I threw the blame back on her, "your saying its my fault that I got mad cuz I waited for u for 25 minutes. If so, then yes it's def over." We said some more stuff, but once she dropped the "fuck u's, I'm done"... that's when I treated as a shit test. She started criticizing me, "Your so conceited, immature, mean, blablabla". I replied, "Yeah? well your in luv with this immature, fly ass ni$$a." Lol so she said a couple more things, and I pretty much showed that whatever she said didn't phase me. Finally at the end, I threw the blame back on her... she replied, "Alright w/e u say." N I said, "Yup deuces".

I'm pretty damn confident that I'ma get back with her. We've had like 5 break ups then make ups, within our 2 weeks of dating. However, this one is a lot more legit. How long should I wait before I fix things. Right now, I'm thinking about waiting 3 days, then txting her 1 night saying, "Goodnight hun. I dunno why, but today I was talking to some girl, and I kept thinking of you. Seriously, wtf did you do to me?... Sweet dreams" Yeahhh, that shit's gon work. Maybe I just needed to type it all out to see what I'ma do. Anyways, maybe eave some input on her bitchiness... Any other ways to handle that? Something you would've done that I didn't?

Let's clear some things up.... Is she actually ur GF or are you just dating? If she specifically said you are her bf then you acted like a complete dick by making such a big deal about waiting for her. Seriously dude you need to learn to drop the whole attitude once it goes into a relationship. Do you expect her to lash out on you when you are taking time to get ready? No to mention if she actually wants to be with you then she did not take time on purpose... So to me in this case ur the "bitchass" boyfriend.

Sooo, you've broken up with this chick 6 times total now?


I'm kinda at a loss man, three days sounds fine I think 7 would be better, but honestly I think ya'll need to grow the fock up, I mean if I break it off with a girl normally it's for good, I can think of two times where the girl and I got back together.

Seems to me the healthier thing to do would be calm the F down and figure out yer problems without blowing thing out of proportion.

she was disrespectful of your time, and you responded....like a 3 year old.

Chill out, talk it out.

Good luck Brother

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She wasn't getting ready for me, she was getting ready for her game. (But we were gonna chill a bit before that) But yeah, I am her bf. I am kinda a dick to her, cuz I can tell she doesn't go for nice guys. I remember I apologized once for saying "fuck u".. or something like that. When we were cool again, she's like, "See your a pussy. You said sorry". I just smiled and said, "I specifically apoligized for saying fuck u. I never apoligized for being me." She even admits that she's a bitch too, and she used to guys kissing her ass, blablabla. But yeah, now that I'm actually in the relationship, I'ma have to be less of a dick to her. U said to wait 7, I was thinking 3... I'll wait 6.

Take her back the way you're planning on getting her back.

But seriously, I don't recommend that kind of attitude in a relationship. Shit's only gonna get worse.

Yeah you right. I gotta start treating her more like my girl, instead of a chick I'm tryna pick up.

Lol so I apoligized to her (indirectly) with some choclates and this letter that her friend delivered to her. I was like, "My love... words can't even express how much I care about you.." u know all that booboo shit. I made an excuse saying that I was just in a bad mood, and I feel bad for treating u like a dick. However, she didn't accept! I told her, "I like learning from trial and error, what did I do wrong. Could you tell my letter was notsomuchfromthe heart?" And she was like, "Yeah, don't say things you don't mean. blablabla". I dunno, she could be lying, and didn't like the nice guy part of me... but who knows. Anyways, if we're breaking up, I'm not gonna crawl back to her. I'ma leave with somewhat of a bang lol. At the end, I said, "Just remember 1 thing, I will have my day with u 1 day. You'll realize when all these clowns come in your life. If there's 1 thing u remember from me, remember this quote. "Nice guys finish last". Mmmuah luv u babe " N that was it. Right now I'm thinkin' about giving her a few day break, then try to get her to come with me or something. She put me in the badboy zone, so maybe I'll show up to her work, pull her to the side, and make out with her. Lol oooo badboy. What do u guys think, she's fine so I wanna keep her, what would u do?

Haha, I dont care what anyone says. That made me laugh.

Hey man, I dont blame you one bit for acting like this. Thats the definition of keeping it real, you dont see that too often and I loved it.

But in a relationship, thats not gonna cut it as much. If you were hooking up for a booty call or something I can understand perfectly but if you're planning on making this a long term thing, you gotta turn the volume down and be a little more tolerant.

But nonetheless, good man lol.

Right now, we're texting. Seh said, "I wanna know how you really feel." Seems like a trick question. I think she wants me to say, "I like you." and then leave. Need I respond something like, "I only have feelings for girls who have feelings for me" or something like that.

Dont reply to that in text. Say something like, "Well, let me come over and tell you in person." Dont do that over text.

When you get over there, grab her and give her a big O'le kiss. She'll love it.